The Loacker Posted November 8, 2007 Posted November 8, 2007 So this is carrying over from this thread I made: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t134872/ I'm getting coffee with this girl tomorrow. I'm not really nervous (well, maybe a bit ), it's just that I haven't been on a date in ages, so I'm kinda out of it. She seems really interested in me, as just today we were talking and she was touching me and being really friendly. I do have a few questions though: 1. How long should the date last? 2. Kiss on the first date...yay or nay? I realize these are both subjective questions, but still any input/suggestions would be appreciated.
Phateless Posted November 8, 2007 Posted November 8, 2007 So this is carrying over from this thread I made: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t134872/ I'm getting coffee with this girl tomorrow. I'm not really nervous (well, maybe a bit ), it's just that I haven't been on a date in ages, so I'm kinda out of it. She seems really interested in me, as just today we were talking and she was touching me and being really friendly. I do have a few questions though: 1. How long should the date last? 2. Kiss on the first date...yay or nay? I realize these are both subjective questions, but still any input/suggestions would be appreciated. The magic answer is... it depends. seriously bro, just relax and have a good time. Don't worry about what she thinks of you, because that burns up too much mental energy and you'll be distracted from the actual date. If anything, worry about what you think of her and what you want. Be the strong one, take the lead. If you're getting bored but want to keep hanging out with her, suggest you change venues. That kind of spontaneity can really fire up a date! If you want to kiss her, do it! Don't be shy or wait for her to invite you to do so... a lot of women find it hott if you just go for it when the moment is right. CALM DOWN! enjoy!
compassion42 Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 I agree with Phateless....just go with the flow and try not to be too nervous. As for the kiss-I'd go for it! Try to read her body language-you can usually tell a lot by doing that. Good Luck!
Author The Loacker Posted November 9, 2007 Author Posted November 9, 2007 Haha guess I'm overanalyzing this thing way too much huh? Alright, I'll just calm down and go with the flow.
investorist Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 I'm getting coffee with this girl tomorrow. I'm not really nervous (well, maybe a bit ), it's just that I haven't been on a date in ages, so I'm kinda out of it. She seems really interested in me, as just today we were talking and she was touching me and being really friendly. I do have a few questions though: 1. How long should the date last? 2. Kiss on the first date...yay or nay? Hello The Loacker, End the date at the point when she feels most interested, excited and having the most fun. y? You want her to go back home and wonder when will be the next most wonderful date be coming. How to tell whether she's ready to be kissed? 1) find a chance to sit beside her 2) play with her hair (if she allows you to continuing playing, its a good sign) 3) smell her hair and tell her how nice it is (if she reacts positively, its the 2nd sign) 4) look straight into her eyes, den look at her lips, into her eyes, den her lips again 5) move your lips towards her lips and stop at abt 98% closeness, let her move the 2%
Phateless Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 Good rundown, but I don't like doing it that scripted. I prefer to just gradually increase the closeness over the night and at some point you'll end up face to face, very close... when you see an opportunity, seize it! Women love the passion of spontaneity.
compassion42 Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 I'd be careful in regards to the post above about when to kiss her....she may find some of those strategies like playing with or smelling her hair to be a little strange.
Author The Loacker Posted November 9, 2007 Author Posted November 9, 2007 Thanks for the tips guys, much appreciated. I figure I'll just play it by ear. We've hung out before and we get along pretty well, so that's not an issue. I just haven't been on a date in a while, so I'm just not sure what's going to happen. Ah whatever, I'll see how it goes.
Phateless Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 Good strategies can be play fighting or fake arguing/flirting right up face to face, then grab a kiss when she's not expecting it... tickle her and wrestle, then when there's a pause and she looks into your eyes, go for it... or hell, sneak up behind her, put your arms around, kiss her neck about halfway between her shoulder and jaw (not too low or it's creepy) and when she turns her head slowly to you like in question, go for it.
EYECANDY000 Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 U cant really determine in advance what time the date should end. I think it would just come naturally as well with the kiss. If the date is going great I dont have a proble with kissing on the first date.
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