Lucky555 Posted November 8, 2007 Posted November 8, 2007 After you kiss a guy and he kisses you back after having a great night of hanging out together...you figured he would say something after five days right? Am i wrong here? Could he say something or does he not care? Signs it did not mean much right? Should i just close the door on him?
Phateless Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 Sometimes I just plain have no idea what to do or say next. When I hook up with a girl at a party I always procrastinate calling again cuz I'm not really sure how to proceed.
Author Lucky555 Posted November 9, 2007 Author Posted November 9, 2007 Ok so maybe he just doesn't know what to say next haha, oh man so i guess I will just let it be. I like this guy but I guess it just means i shouldn't hope for anything more..the ball is basically in his court. Its kind of hard not to wonder when I know he likes me, he has my number, email, aim, ect...and no contact after that is a bit odd which is why I am puzzled. OH well NEXT! lol I am not going to wait around for him to make up his mind, i have been through this with the him before and i left him. Seems like a cycle here doesn't it, took me 2 months to figure it out, this time I learned my lesson and will so look after my happiness and look for someone who can be there instead of aloof. I am saying this to keep it in mind as i venture onto greener pastures and if i am still available and he wants something then maybe its worth a try but in the mean time no regrets.
Blue Eyed Brain Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 What did he say to get you to kiss him? He has the words to get a woman, but then backs off - forget about him until he finds the words to win you over. Till then, find another.
Phateless Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 this happened twice with this guy or with guys in general? because i have had this happen to me with two or three different girls in the past couple of months... maybe it's the college hookup scene? they were all a bit younger than me as well, so that probably has something to do with it.
Author Lucky555 Posted November 9, 2007 Author Posted November 9, 2007 well, i guess he knew that he had done wrong before by letting me go the first time. he had been pursing me all night...and i said to myself ok maybe he has good intentions and hes actually ready for something now. So as the night progresses hes "into me" hes hold my hand, flirting, hugging, ect..so thats how the kiss came about. But i had moved on after we were seeing eachother before and i can do it again horray to that! haha. I don't think i want a guy that does this its just too much wondering and not enough stability to build trust. I know it may seem i am reading too much into this but COME ON Five days and he has known me for over a year so this is weird i suppose
Author Lucky555 Posted November 9, 2007 Author Posted November 9, 2007 "this happened twice with this guy or with guys in general? because i have had this happen to me with two or three different girls in the past couple of months... maybe it's the college hookup scene?" No this is his "second chance" hes out of college i am in college. I am pursuing my masters he has his bachelors degree. I have two years left hes like 25 and i am 22. I had moved on after seeing this particular guy with another relationship but ended because I was not that into him i should say. So this guy came around while hanging out with friends.
Phateless Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 i see... well... do you want it to mean anything?
Author Lucky555 Posted November 9, 2007 Author Posted November 9, 2007 well in the "perfect world" i would like it to mean something..this guy just doesn't go around kissing girls which is why i thought it might have...but that question of "do i want it to mean anything" yeah, but its up to him.
Phateless Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 well in the "perfect world" i would like it to mean something..this guy just doesn't go around kissing girls which is why i thought it might have...but that question of "do i want it to mean anything" yeah, but its up to him. Don't be afraid to make a move... but be gentle... come on too strong and guys panic cuz we think you're too attached too early.
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