almosthere Posted November 8, 2007 Posted November 8, 2007 If you don't remember my situation I will explain it briefly. There is this girl I developed a crush on after 4 years, we are seniors in HS. It has been about a month now since I really started to like her. Other notes: She has a boyfriend, maybe for about a month now We never had classes or anythign before this year She is absolutely gorgeous and anyone would agree, like at the very least a 9, most likely a 10...no exxageration here. Now onto what I learned today. Many people (actually maybe 10 at most, out of a class of 225) have known for a few weeks that I liked her alot, they promised not to say anything. I shoulda known better but I can't change it and just wanted to talk about it a little with a few kids. Today at lunch my friend (who is dating my crushes like best friend) said "Are you really obsessed with (the girl I like)?" I said "Who told you that?" and he said his girlfriend. He said he heard it first a few weeks ago.and that she (my crush) has known for a few weeks as well. The parts that worry me are that he used the word obsessed, though he said she didn't use those exact words. I don't talk to his girlfriend so she must have heard from someone else, I think I know who. The girl I like has not been acting weird, we still talk some and we still make eye contact a pretty good amount...basically she is acting the same as before when I thought she might like me. What do I do now? She knows I like her but she has a boyfriend, and I haven't attempted to let HER know I like her...mainly because she is dating and we are both kinda quiet. Should I just pretend like nothing has changed and just try and talk to her more? It might be harder now because we both know now. And, would a girl (she has had two total boyfriends that I am aware of) who is like a typical HS girl in that she always wants a boyfriend just break up with her current boyfriend after just hearing that someone likes her through her friends? I would guess she wouldn't do anything drastic if I have been as shy as I have and haven't let her know at all. Right??
gonetildecember Posted November 8, 2007 Posted November 8, 2007 Well it's likely that she has known for a while too, and since she has not acted any different around you- you shouldn't change your behaviour either. However, she does have a boyfriend remember, so maybe her contact with you is friendly. I'm not sure if she would just break up with him since you like her, especially since you said you are shy and haven't really let her know. And think about it, would you really want that.. if it's that easy for her to break up with him and move on to you- how do you know you won't be replaced just as easy.
Author almosthere Posted November 9, 2007 Author Posted November 9, 2007 Thanks! Anyone else with help?
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