Author heftysmurf Posted November 8, 2007 Author Posted November 8, 2007 The people that have said bail or stick it out do you have kids? How long did you wait before your decided?
norajane Posted November 8, 2007 Posted November 8, 2007 Did you get the paternity test results? Are you certain she is your daughter?
Author heftysmurf Posted November 8, 2007 Author Posted November 8, 2007 Should be soon Friday or Monday.
Cobra_X30 Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 Only you can answer that. I'd say She is the one who should answer that... with her actions. All he has to do is interpret that data! The people that have said bail or stick it out do you have kids? How long did you wait before your decided? I was that kid!
Author heftysmurf Posted November 13, 2007 Author Posted November 13, 2007 She is mine. Thank god as I love her more than anything.
White Flower Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 Hi Hefty, Wow, your pain is still so strong and I can't blame you. I have a friend who cheated on her H just for the sole purposes of better sex. Her H was absolutely crushed on Dday, but loved her a great deal. He quit smoking, began working out, and started on viagra. These things really helped and now they are really happy together. You would never know they had problems if you looked at them now. The only difference was, my friend only carried on with this other guy for a few months. We talked about her exOM today and she is so not into him. I believe it was for sex only and that fact made all the difference in the world to her H. Good luck, sweetie. ps If you do try these methods of improvement (if needed), then do it for yourself first.
4whatItsWorth Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 The people that have said bail or stick it out do you have kids? How long did you wait before your decided? I was/am the kid. My dad cheated on my mom for about 4 years before he left her a year and a half ago. I don't think I could respect my mom if she'd taken my dad back...then again, my mom isn't the easiest person to live with (no reason for him to cheat on her though!). From a "kid"'s POW...don't stay unless you can be lovey-dovey. My parents never showed any romantic affection since I was like 16...and it all seemed too fake to me. I'd rather my parents be happy separated than miserable together.
hollaxatholly Posted November 14, 2007 Posted November 14, 2007 I didn't read the responses but IMO, that is no excuse to cheat...if, infact you are bad in bed, why wouldn't she help you out and help you to make it better?? I know if I loved someone, and they weren't good in bed, I would NEVER be able to go find someone new, i guess that's just me but theres just no way that is a good excuse....and if she uses that..that's just ridiculous to me! So, no, don't let that make it any easier. I'm not saying you shouldn't try to work it out but I don't know. That's really selfish of her. I guess it depends how your relationship is otherwise, if it is worth it, try to work it out. otherwise, you can still have a good relationship with your daughter and find someone who will be happy with you in bed, and out!
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