Just wanted to vent.

[the_real_jim]

hey

 

dunno how i endded up being here, was just playing around on facebook - saw what my ex was doing and dont really feel t bad - just like somethings bothering me what i cant put my finger on it. bleh!#

 

anyways, this is my story (doesnt seem half as bad as what others have been through here)

 

dumped prolly the nicest girl to be with my ex. was with her for almost 4 years, even had a friend of mine stay over at her house loads of the time. guess she didnt take to it when i said i need to focus on my exams (uni costing me £3000 on fees and atleast another 6-8000 living cost a year), i messed up and took an extra 2 years to get into uni. best mate and her endded up hooking up. i trusted him more than almost anyone, and he went behind my back like a dirty friggin rat.

 

was a really bad break up, was supposed to move into a house with my ex and the rat friend.

 

anyways, just wanted to let people know - it was the best thing that happened to me! new flatmates, etc - met a lovely girl after that, nothing serious, we exactly what i needed (plus, her being super nice in everyway ). i got back into shape, my life was back on track, etc etc etc.

 

but lately, its just been getting me down the dumps. not sure what triggers it off - but nether the less, it does.

 

only thing that seems to bother me the most is how much of a b*tch she is. adding my friends on her facebook, she tried to turn my friends against me- theres a million things she did and still does now that pisses the crap outta me. but i dont seem to feel depressed or angry. just nothing really. i have accepted what has happened, and yes i cried like a little girl . but im not ashamed to admit it. just dont know what the hell is bothering me these days.

 

feel better now, but i still dunno what i'm supposed to do now.

 

jim

[SunnyLady]

Doesnt sound like you are completly over her??

 

I understand that you may feel down sometimes, thats life for us in general but the fact that her actions are still impacting on your moods say a lot. Ignore all her actions, she can't take your REAL friends away. Just try to cut her off completly. Imagine her as not being in your world any longer and develop a thick skin towards her. Seems like she is trying to seek for attention. What happened to the new girl you met you were casually involved with?