Jamie.Ashe Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 I'm in college and I'm not a teenager anymore, but still... I wonder if this could work. You know how a lot of people, usually young people, will have their friends ask their crush if they like them? Well that's not what I want to do... but something similar to that... let me explain my situation and you tell me your opinion on how it might work. Is it too immature to have my girl friends (or one of them) ask my guy friends (or one of them) about my crush and if he likes me or not? All of us: me, my crush, girl friends, and guy friends are all mutual friends and we hang out on a regular basis. So it wouldn't be like my girl friends don't KNOW his guy friends and are asking them about me. That's usually what goes on in high school situations. But since we're all friends together, couldn't this work because it doesn't involve my crush directly. Plus we think one of the guys might know something, but we aren't for sure. Also one of my girl friends talks sometimes about how she has set people up before and she has been successful at it and likes doing it. So her excuse for asking the guys about me and my crush is that she thought we might make a good match or something. Just tell me, am I being immature and need to grow up or could this help me out until I am ready to tell him how I feel? It's just like I've tried to find out if he likes me but it is SO tough for me to tell the difference between him just being friendly or him liking me. I just need some extra help and thought that my girl and guy friends could help me out with this.
Lovegod Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 I wouldn't say you're immature, I'd say you're too chicken 5hit to ask him out directly.
MR2Aaron Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 I wouldn't say you're immature, I'd say you're too chicken 5hit to ask him out directly. Quoted for truth. Seriously, just ask him. The average guy doesn't have women ask him out that often, and generally doesn't like being the one to HAVE to initiate. Even if he's not head over heels about you now, he'll probably be not only flattered but pretty impressed that you were willing to violate a minor social more in order to ask him. (This is assuming, of course, that you meet his minimum standard of physical attractiveness)
gonetildecember Posted November 8, 2007 Posted November 8, 2007 lol. It's not really immature, it's just obvious ur nervous/hesitant about his answer. I'm sure if you really wanted to find out you could, maybe ask him to chill alone (not around the group) and I'm sure you could figure it out. If you can (as hard as it is) just ask lol if not, the friend thing can work.. but that can also lead to drama.. this person saying this .. and it getting back to him.. can cause even more confusion/embarassment.
Ocean-Blue Posted November 8, 2007 Posted November 8, 2007 Not really. You're feeling him out without directly asking him. I know people do that (despite their age). But wouldn't you rather ask him yourself? That way, if his response is not favourable...well you could always keep it to yourself.
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