Stereogram Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 Here's some facts and figures you...I've been involved with eight women this year. 4 of these girls I actually went on dates with and they wanted legitimate relationships. I kissed all of four of these girls...but they weren't really my type and sort of average looking. Most of all, I didn't enjoy their personalities. The other 4, I got their number, and they never called me back. Oh, and guess what? These 4 were extremely hot. So I'm batting .500. I realize that I won't get a lot of responses on this board because girls normally don't approach guys...but I just have to say I've given every girl that has approached me a chance. It didn't matter if they were too short, too fat, too tall, jobless, whatever. I judge character, and you'll never know what you'll feel when you get that person one on one. Everybody says I'm not too bad on the eyes (send me a PM and I'll give you a link)...so what's stopping these girls? Why can't at least one good looking girl be open enough to just go on one date with me so I can prove myself?
Lovegod Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 Welcome to the world of dating! Where persistence pays off and having fun is a necessity in success. You'll be weeding out a lot of 5hitty women (there are LOTS and LOTS of them out there) before you find a damn decent one. BTW, you don't have to prove yourself to anyone but yourself. The woman's opinion of you doesn't matter, it's your opinion of her that will make or break her opportunity to date you.
bigheartkindsoul Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 Welcome to the world of dating! Where persistence pays off and having fun is a necessity in success. You'll be weeding out a lot of 5hitty women (there are LOTS and LOTS of them out there) before you find a damn decent one. BTW, you don't have to prove yourself to anyone but yourself. The woman's opinion of you doesn't matter, it's your opinion of her that will make or break her opportunity to date you. And just like men there are alot of sh@tty ones but there are also lots of nice good ones (so I am told) there is no more sh@tty women than there is men. And not all good looking women screw you over.
amaysngrace Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 Rejection on her part doesn't mean she's screwing you over. It's just how you perceive it to be.
Lovegod Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 And just like men there are alot of sh@tty ones Unfortunately, the subject of this thread is 5hitty women. There is no reason to start an equality debate here. Perhaps you'd like to start your own thread discussing your point of view on men.
Lauriebell82 Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 Not all women are out to screw guys over..the same could be said for guys as well. Yeah, dating SUCKS. You gotta weed out the bad ones to find the good. I think you maybe be going about this all wrong, however. If you aren't attracted to the girl, don't like her personality, and they aren't your type why would you kiss them or "give them a chance." I mean if you don't like someone, you don't like them. That's kind of just leading a girl on. Go out with girls you like! Some will reject you, some won't. Dating is kind of a hit or miss kind of thing. There are good partners out there (both men and women), some like you, some don't. I think maybe an improve in attitude may help your situation. Instead of just giving "anyone" a chance, just go out with girls you like. That may help your attitude and your self-esteem. But you have to be aware going into it that some girls are going to reject you, some won't. But thats the chance you take in going out with ANYONE. (a first date, casual relationship, serious relationship, engagement, marriage, ect). If you change your mindset, you may not feel as bad about your situation and women actually may pick up on this. You may be projecting your attitude onto girls and maybe thats why you are having such tough luck.
Lauriebell82 Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 Unfortunately, the subject of this thread is 5hitty women. There is no reason to start an equality debate here. Perhaps you'd like to start your own thread discussing your point of view on men. Yes, but if the subject of this thread would be about 5hitty men, I'm sure men would be defending their teritory as well. It's just human nature.
amber1 Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 Not all women are out to screw guys over..the same could be said for guys as well. Yeah, dating SUCKS. You gotta weed out the bad ones to find the good. I think you maybe be going about this all wrong, however. If you aren't attracted to the girl, don't like her personality, and they aren't your type why would you kiss them or "give them a chance." I mean if you don't like someone, you don't like them. That's kind of just leading a girl on. Go out with girls you like! Some will reject you, some won't. Dating is kind of a hit or miss kind of thing. There are good partners out there (both men and women), some like you, some don't. This is all very true. The good ones are hard to find....and even harder to find the older we get. I have tried being "less picky" but just ended up being disappointed. And yes, I have dated guys who I was really into but gotten hurt. I have just labeled those as ones who just weren't right for me. Like Lauriebell said, you are going to have to do a lot of weeding out in order to find the one who is right for you. It's better to be picky and go for what you really like and want than not.
jcster Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 so....screwing you over=rejecting you. How were you screwed over, again? I think I missed it.
Trialbyfire Posted November 12, 2007 Posted November 12, 2007 So you rejected four women and four women rejected you. Appears to be a push to me. Why are you dating women who aren't appealing to you? If anything, it sounds like it's not a personality thing at all. It's about looks. It seems you're playing the numbers game that so many guys read about in the player ads. Notice how it doesn't work?
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