Author bigheartkindsoul Posted November 8, 2007 Author Posted November 8, 2007 Go into your options on here and add it Then we can PM email addys
slygambler Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 After talking with some close people that are trying to help with my situation, I think your headed on the right track. Someone told me this recently: Don't try and forget. Time will not heal inside hurt. In order to heal from hurting inside, you have to analyze the situation. You have to realize why you liked him, why you liked the relationship, and why you made the choices you did in the relationship. Although you may have feelings for him, you have to find the source of those feelings. Are they there because of fear? Are they there because of confusion? Don't try to forget him. Learn from this whole experience. It wasn't a waste of time, you've probably learned some of the most important lessons in life, but because you can't understand his actions, you are punishing yourself. You are a great person and you will be appreciated in due time. I was desperately searching for answers a while ago and I found a webpage that helped tremendously. http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2006/12/05/after-the-breakup/ Best wishes.
Author bigheartkindsoul Posted November 9, 2007 Author Posted November 9, 2007 Wow thank you for your words and the link I will read tomorrow as nearly bedtime hear. Thanks for giving me that. xxx
slygambler Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 Wow thank you for your words and the link I will read tomorrow as nearly bedtime hear. Thanks for giving me that. xxx No worries. And I must say, thank you for giving me a reason to smile. I haven't done that in quite a while...
Author bigheartkindsoul Posted November 10, 2007 Author Posted November 10, 2007 http://www.patient.co.uk/showdoc/23068720/ http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/ate/health/depression/600249.shtml?tab_id=23 http://www.thesite.org/healthandwellbeing/mentalhealth/depression/understandingdepression
mikesinclair Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 Go into your options on here and add it Then we can PM email addys i'm usually good with things like this, but nope, i can't work out how to add it..... Am i being really dumb here..................
marty Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 from lookin at your pic bhks, its definately your ex's loss!!!! wont be long before your cuddling up with that dvd, i'm sure of it. glad your feeling better.
Numb_L.Park Posted November 10, 2007 Posted November 10, 2007 Wish i was cuddled up with someone like you ! you seem a great person inside and out. Good luck hun xxxxxx
Author bigheartkindsoul Posted November 11, 2007 Author Posted November 11, 2007 from lookin at your pic bhks, its definately your ex's loss!!!! wont be long before your cuddling up with that dvd, i'm sure of it. glad your feeling better. Wish i was cuddled up with someone like you ! you seem a great person inside and out. Good luck hun xxxxxx Thanks guys, I am doing much better - had a good laugh out with my friend last night, natural anti depressent and worked wonders.
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