Steffie575 Posted November 7, 2007 Share Posted November 7, 2007 Todays my birthday, and I cant stop crying. I cried myself to sleep last night because this birthday (23) is the first one since I was 16 that I didnt get a call at midnight from him. Now Im awake and just so sad. I dont think Ive felt this sad throughout the two months ive been going through this breakup. Im wishing so much that he will call me sometime today to wish a happy birthday. But yet, that would be a lose-lose situation. If he does call, I will just be even more sad....but if he doesnt call, wow....I dont know how I'll feel. But he has a new girlfriend so I doubt I'll hear from him. I'm so sad...... Link to post Share on other sites
bigheartkindsoul Posted November 7, 2007 Share Posted November 7, 2007 Hey I was dumped 3days before mine, I'd just had surgery too. It's one birthday, its tough but think about how cool you can make next years birthday! I know I am gonna Link to post Share on other sites
Author Steffie575 Posted November 7, 2007 Author Share Posted November 7, 2007 Hey I was dumped 3days before mine, I'd just had surgery too. It's one birthday, its tough but think about how cool you can make next years birthday! I know I am gonna Jeez, whats with these heartless ex's?? Thanks for responding....yeah, im trying to think positive... Link to post Share on other sites
bigheartkindsoul Posted November 7, 2007 Share Posted November 7, 2007 Jeez, whats with these heartless ex's?? Thanks for responding....yeah, im trying to think positive... Selfish gits. Hun just today think right what am I gonna do next year, what have I always wanted to do on my birthday and get planning now. It'll make you feel better. I think me and my friends are gonna go away next year for mine just for a night or two. And think, if you have the worst birthday ever, then all others will be a great improvment and much more fun. Link to post Share on other sites
marlena Posted November 7, 2007 Share Posted November 7, 2007 Steffie, You are very young and very pretty. Life is yours for the grabbing. There will be many, many more joyful birthdays to come! Believe it! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Steffie575 Posted November 7, 2007 Author Share Posted November 7, 2007 Steffie, You are very young and very pretty. Life is yours for the grabbing. There will be many, many more joyful birthdays to come! Believe it! Thank you so much I knew I could come here and feel better. Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted November 7, 2007 Share Posted November 7, 2007 Happy birthday.Im sorry your so sad . Things get better over time. Link to post Share on other sites
marlena Posted November 7, 2007 Share Posted November 7, 2007 Wish I could help you blow out those candles!!! All 23 of them. You are my daughter's age!!! And just as pretty and sweet! Link to post Share on other sites
funkybassplayer Posted November 7, 2007 Share Posted November 7, 2007 You will find that certain days will pul you back a little, but the more you heal, the less you will be pulled back. Have a happy birthday, and try to enjoy what you have rather than what you dont. Link to post Share on other sites
MattyTee Posted November 7, 2007 Share Posted November 7, 2007 A good point from funky there. My mum pointed this out when my ex first left me, remember to count your blessings. It can be hard at first but if you look for them you'll find that you are surrounded by them! Link to post Share on other sites
kittensmittens Posted November 7, 2007 Share Posted November 7, 2007 Awww, Steffie! Yesterday was one of those days for me...I woke up and just cried and cried and cried. Some days are just a lot worse than others. Do you have anyone you can go out with today? If not, try to do whatever makes you happy....I know it's not easy though. Who knows...maybe someone new will be in your life next year and he'll care about every birthday to come after that one even. Anyway.... Happy 23rd birthday!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Steffie575 Posted November 7, 2007 Author Share Posted November 7, 2007 Awww, Steffie! Yesterday was one of those days for me...I woke up and just cried and cried and cried. Some days are just a lot worse than others. Do you have anyone you can go out with today? If not, try to do whatever makes you happy....I know it's not easy though. Who knows...maybe someone new will be in your life next year and he'll care about every birthday to come after that one even. Anyway.... Happy 23rd birthday!! Dont these sad days suck?? Im going to dinner with my dad tonight....hanging with my friends this weekend. But its like...no matter who I am with today, the only person I REALLY want to hear from/see is my ex. I want his thoughtful gifts and card he always got me...ugh. This SUCKS. Thanks though. Link to post Share on other sites
serendip Posted November 7, 2007 Share Posted November 7, 2007 Happy birthday Link to post Share on other sites
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