Woggle Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 I am in a city three hours from where I live right now preparing for an event that is to happen next monday and last night I was talking to a representitive from one of the companies we are dealing with and she was telling me that both of us could cheat and neither one of our spouses would find out. She was complaining about her husband though I would bet my house he is a good man who she finds boring and rolls over to let her walk all over him. I have a room all to myself with internet access and my iPod so that is good enough for me without inviting some cheating liar into it. I of course turned her down in a polite way because I still have to deal with her in a business but it really makes me wonder if I have the only trustworthy woman left. It's disgusting and this is why you see so many bitter guys on here. Strangely enough it didn't make me doubt my wife but makes me appreciate her even more because I got damn lucky. She is coming down friday night for a nice dinner and a night on the town.
Timberlane Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 Yeah, that sort of meeting always turns my stomach. I met a woman like that at an ice climbing festival last year. She was buying a jacket for her husband on the one hand and getting cheeky with a known adulterer on the other hand. When I discovered the two of them, I said, "Oh, you have one of those marriages, huh?" She said, "Yes." I just shook my head and walked away.
Lovegod Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 Stuff like this doesn't bother me at all. I've been hit on my women who are officially taken or engaged. It just reinforces the fact that men like me are incredibly valuable and high in demand.
Mz. Pixie Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 A guy that works on my floor tried to hit on me this week too. I don't know him and he doesn't work for our company. Gave me a nice compliment etc and I said "Yes, my husband thinks so too" and acted like I had to get some where in a hurry. It's not all women who do this Woggle. I am sure he can see my wedding ring on my finger!!!
Blue Eyed Brain Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 I get hit on at work, at the coffee shop, at the supermarket, even with my children present. Never be surprised by the antics of others.
luvmy2ns Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 No, Woggle, your wife is not alone in her integrity. There are others. But there will also be skanks, both female and male, no matter where you turn. It's those that do NOT hit on you that you don't tally up. Look around at all the women who do NOT hit on you. Count them up over the course of a few months and see how many there are. Really, do you seriously meet MORE unfaithful women than faithful ones?
Art_Critic Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 Maybe she was testing you to see what type of man you are ?
underpants Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 I am in a city three hours from where I live right now preparing for an event that is to happen next monday and last night I was talking to a representitive from one of the companies we are dealing with and she was telling me that both of us could cheat and neither one of our spouses would find out. She was complaining about her husband though I would bet my house he is a good man who she finds boring and rolls over to let her walk all over him. I have a room all to myself with internet access and my iPod so that is good enough for me without inviting some cheating liar into it. I of course turned her down in a polite way because I still have to deal with her in a business but it really makes me wonder if I have the only trustworthy woman left. It's disgusting and this is why you see so many bitter guys on here. Strangely enough it didn't make me doubt my wife but makes me appreciate her even more because I got damn lucky. She is coming down friday night for a nice dinner and a night on the town. Woggs, The things I have seen. No wonder I fear marriage. What is it about being out of town? Even here occassionally you read the mindset of 'if the spouse doesn't know it is not cheating'. What a load of bunk. It sounds like you handled it professionally. I would definately keep it strickly business with that chick. Nothing outside the bounds of the job and with other witnesses if possible. (I just don't trust that sort) For future reference things I have found that 'shut it down' are vocally complimenting your wife and expressing how she is the only one for you. Not really in a response, just as a preemptive strike. Another could be just stating in general how distasteful infidelity is. Also, gently questioning about their treatment of their spouse, in a response. I once had 3 married men hit on me together. That was just strange. I kindly told them where the local strip club was and explained that I could not oblidge them. They were on vacation and just so disrepectful. I finally did flirt back just enough to get a huge tip then told them to call their wives and tell them how much they love them. That burst their bubble (that is the best bartending advice I ever gave...) Another dude was visiting from England and after hitting on me moved onto the other bartender. I told her that I really thought he was married, but she fell for the ring on the other hand and disregarded the tan line. Oh well, he burned her and was smug about it. Then proceeded to hit on me again so I offered him a free shot. All tabasco. He wanted me fired. I just explained how that would be fine and asked what address in England would his complaint be from? Never happened. People (male or female) who are seeking affairs while out of town will generally just move on to another target when they find you unresponsive. I just find them a sad lot. You are lucky and when you see the worst in others let it remind you how good you have it. Let it motivate you to nourish the good relationship that you have. Have a wonderful time on Friday.
allina Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 Ewww how sleazy of her My father travels for business a lot and has women approach him and proposition him even though he always has his wedding band on and makes it clear he's not interested Hopefully this was a start of a shift, it would be great if the bad behavior of SOME women now made you appreciate the great behavior of your wife.
amaysngrace Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 I don't like when married men hit on me. I get insulted by it, not flattered at all. I also hate when guys kiss their ladies or their children staring right in my face. What's up with that? They all say "mmm" too. Like make loud kisses. They gross me out. I don't get it.
Lizzie60 Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 I am in a city three hours from where I live right now preparing for an event that is to happen next monday and last night I was talking to a representitive from one of the companies we are dealing with and she was telling me that both of us could cheat and neither one of our spouses would find out. She was complaining about her husband though I would bet my house he is a good man who she finds boring and rolls over to let her walk all over him. I have a room all to myself with internet access and my iPod so that is good enough for me without inviting some cheating liar into it. I of course turned her down in a polite way because I still have to deal with her in a business but it really makes me wonder if I have the only trustworthy woman left. It's disgusting and this is why you see so many bitter guys on here. Strangely enough it didn't make me doubt my wife but makes me appreciate her even more because I got damn lucky. She is coming down friday night for a nice dinner and a night on the town. How do you know this was a 'hit'... I could say this same line to a guy I absolutely do not want to have sex with.. she was just stating the obvious reality. Sometimes, men tend to read way too much into what they hear from women. I've said stuff to men that could have been taken as a 'invite' but trust me..it wasn't. Discussion is not always a 'pass' even if it's about 'cheating'.
dbtmarley Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 I was hit on 36 1/2 days ago by a woman who had to be no less than 85 years old. Don't know if she was a married skank, but I'm sure throughout the years she has been taken more than once. Still wonder if she could have taught me a thing or two.....
Phateless Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 I am in a city three hours from where I live right now preparing for an event that is to happen next monday and last night I was talking to a representitive from one of the companies we are dealing with and she was telling me that both of us could cheat and neither one of our spouses would find out. She was complaining about her husband though I would bet my house he is a good man who she finds boring and rolls over to let her walk all over him. I have a room all to myself with internet access and my iPod so that is good enough for me without inviting some cheating liar into it. I of course turned her down in a polite way because I still have to deal with her in a business but it really makes me wonder if I have the only trustworthy woman left. It's disgusting and this is why you see so many bitter guys on here. Strangely enough it didn't make me doubt my wife but makes me appreciate her even more because I got damn lucky. She is coming down friday night for a nice dinner and a night on the town. People never cease to amaze me...
EnigmaXOXO Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 Shoot. That’s only a small taste of what it’s like when you have double X chromosomes. I’d love[/b[ for you to try out a day as a female (just once) so you could count how many times someone’s spouse hits on you ... just because you happen to have ‘double somethin’s’. And YOUR bellyaching about being bitter to the majority of females on this board (???) You crack me up. :laugh: Although I think what you're really doing is bragging.
bish Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 well i posted a while back to Woggle about a woman who was married hitting on me when she found out I was getting divorced. While I didn't let her have it in "Bish" style like I do here, I did make it known to her in no uncertain terms that I don't approve of what she is doing and that her and I were NOT going to happen.
dbtmarley Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 Shoot. That’s only a small taste of what it’s like when you have double X chromosomes. I’d love[/b[ for you to try out a day as a female (just once) so you could count how many times someone’s spouse hits on you ... just because you happen to have ‘double somethin’s’. And YOUR bellyaching about being bitter to the majority of females on this board (???) You crack me up. :laugh: Although I think what you're really doing is bragging. Snicker snicker
pollywag Posted November 8, 2007 Posted November 8, 2007 I've read some of your past posts and you seem to claim a lot of married women hit on you, I wonder what it is you are doing that is giving all these women the green light? On these business trips of yours you are either too nice or too flirty and I bet these women are getting the wrong impression. I hate to point this out but in all cases the common denominator is you.
Author Woggle Posted November 8, 2007 Author Posted November 8, 2007 I am a very charming and charismatic person so women try to hit on me.
Citizen Erased Posted November 8, 2007 Posted November 8, 2007 I am a very charming and charismatic person so women try to hit on me. I love that you are modest too Well I've seen your pic and I find you quite attractive, so I can imagine you would get approached alot. I admire you that you wouldn't let it get far at all because you love your wife so much.
squeak Posted November 8, 2007 Posted November 8, 2007 I think having crap experiences with women was the best thing to happen to Woggle, and subsequently for his wife too, otherwise he may not be so vigilantly against infidelity, and his values may not have been as clearly defined. It was your painful experiences that also have made you good husband material.
Author Woggle Posted November 8, 2007 Author Posted November 8, 2007 I love that you are modest too Well I've seen your pic and I find you quite attractive, so I can imagine you would get approached alot. I admire you that you wouldn't let it get far at all because you love your wife so much. I am not egotistical or anything but even my boss told me I am a natural salesman. Plus I am a talker so if I am talking to a woman in a friendly way like I would talk to any man they sometimes mistake it as interest. I was discussing business and making small talk with this woman and she thought I was flirting with her. Must be one of those married women who meet a married man and she thinks there is this amazing connection. She can connect with some other man naive enough to believe her sob stories about her boring husband.
Citizen Erased Posted November 8, 2007 Posted November 8, 2007 I am not egotistical or anything but even my boss told me I am a natural salesman. Plus I am a talker so if I am talking to a woman in a friendly way like I would talk to any man they sometimes mistake it as interest. I was discussing business and making small talk with this woman and she thought I was flirting with her. Must be one of those married women who meet a married man and she thinks there is this amazing connection. She can connect with some other man naive enough to believe her sob stories about her boring husband. Oh well I guess you are just a stud and any woman would be lucky to have you flirt with her. (Don't worry, I'll leave you alone, I have enough people to flirt with:p). lol I truly think it is great that you have no interest in another woman whatsoever, you know you have a keeper and she is lucky to have someone who thinks like this. Every couple has their issues, at least this one isn't one of yours!
RecordProducer Posted November 8, 2007 Posted November 8, 2007 I am in a city three hours from where I live right now preparing for an event that is to happen next monday and last night I was talking to a representitive from one of the companies we are dealing with and she was telling me that both of us could cheat and neither one of our spouses would find out. She was complaining about her husband though I would bet my house he is a good man who she finds boring and rolls over to let her walk all over him. I have a room all to myself with internet access and my iPod so that is good enough for me without inviting some cheating liar into it. I of course turned her down in a polite way because I still have to deal with her in a business but it really makes me wonder if I have the only trustworthy woman left. It's disgusting and this is why you see so many bitter guys on here. Strangely enough it didn't make me doubt my wife but makes me appreciate her even more because I got damn lucky. She is coming down friday night for a nice dinner and a night on the town.Your post is full of assumptions and logical flaws! (See the text in bold)
Author Woggle Posted November 8, 2007 Author Posted November 8, 2007 I think having crap experiences with women was the best thing to happen to Woggle, and subsequently for his wife too, otherwise he may not be so vigilantly against infidelity, and his values may not have been as clearly defined. It was your painful experiences that also have made you good husband material. There are two reasons. I have been cheated on before and I know how it feels. I know how much it hurt and I would never do that to another person. I believe that good women worth any of a man's time and commitment are few and far in between so when a man finds a rare gem such as my wife he should not do anything to mess it up. Finding a good and decent woman is like finding a super rare collectors item where there are only 2 or 3 copies left. You don't do anything to mess up your good fortune.
Mz. Pixie Posted November 8, 2007 Posted November 8, 2007 Woggle- It's hard to find a good man too! I doubt however that there are only a few good women left. The numbers are probably actually the same- finding a good woman or finding a good man.
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