trevor_n Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 wow!! guys at this point i just want to vent everything out , and offer some advice from my experiences. a few months back my girlfriend starting acting real funny, she was moody argumentative , negative etc. i spent most of my energy trying to figure out wat the hell was wrong with her. then one day i went through her phone and found text messages to a suspicious number, suspicious, in that the number wasnt saved in the phone book, most of the text messages had been sent at times i wasnt around.upon my further investigation the numebr turned out to be a guys. when confronted she told me the guy was only a friend ( my gut instinct told she was lying through her nose!!!, why the extreeme lengths to hide everything from me) ) soon the comunication between her and the guy escalated to regular phone calls from the guy in my prescence, i tell you guys when the other guy called, her body language would change instantly, she ould become flirtatious and ultra receptive.Whenever i questioned i was met with extreeme stubbornes which would leed to yet another sour day. you guys feel me here, anyone who can identify give me a silent nod!! lesson number 1 always trust your gut instinct a week later girl breaks up with me , exactly a week later she comes slithering back asking me to forgive her for everything , against my better judgement i took her back,but demanded a full confession.apparantley two days after we broke up she was in bed with the other guy, i didnt want to beleive it, but she jumped in the sack with the other guy just 2 days after she said she wanted to break up citing reasons that were very far off lesson number 2: you waited a month before you slept together, the guy she cheats with gets to have sex with her in a tenth of that time let me expalin further , when i was courting my girlfriend, i was really made to wait before we could have sex,i mustve waited a whoping month.She had sex with guy i under 48 hours,when i took her back i didnt want to beleive she had actually gone and had sex with guy,i just didnt want to beleive she had had sex with the other guy so soon.thats whather confession revealed and probably a whole lot more i dont know after taking her back i hung in there for 3 weeks, really doing my best to forgive,because i still loved her and beleived it would work..and i was gettin there, untill i started to see some of the old signs again, unexpalined moodiness ( she blamed it on tests and exams hahah), and just that general gut feeling when someone around you isnt happy.i could sense there was still more to cum never go back after she cheats! one day out of the blue she sends me a text message saying she is still very bitter about the fights we used to have!!!and about the fact that when we moved out of our house i took stuff ( stuff that belonged to me, that i had bought!!! she is a student!!!!!).Mind you she slept with another guy,and came crawling back to me.I then decided to take of the kid gloves and tell give her a piece of my mind!! , and that i did. the fact of the matter is that the whole thing about being bitter was an excuse,to cause more tension in the reltionship and find out!!, back to that other guy again!!!!!.this time i decided enough was enough and got the hell outa there. i tell u guys women are amazing a few days later she sends me an email to "check in with me " and see how im coping hahahah!!, i sent her a page long email telling her to keep her fake concern to herself,and how im really looking forward to moving on. lesson never change when u meet a woman you like, keep going out with friends,maintain your extr_curricula activities , make friends with other women etc, keep doing the things you always did, in other words dont live for her, dnt let her control you
waitingwaitingonyou Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 I totally agree with you dude. My mom always says. ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER. And that is so true. Move on and find a girl that wont do that to you. She will get dumped by this guy and be coming back to you in no time., This story is exactly like mine. Except my ex was a drug addict....the hard stuff. They will never be happy because they think there is something always better out there. Move on buddy. If you wanna chat on msn just send me your email adress.... or a pm. Now my ex is fluttering around on msn trying to get my attention. Yesterday she sent me a freggin period . Yes a . That was it. I just clicked the x button and got the hell outta there. She has a new man...one of her exes.....it wont last long.... oh well...I really dont care...i am totally done with her. I can say that now i am happier!!
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