Someone wanna try this one!?!?

[plowking]

k i just need some advice...umm this is whats going on me and my girlfriend who have pretty much been 2gether for 4 years just head over heals for eachother decided 2 break up... i didn't want 2 end it and i dont think she did as well...but we did 2 days ago and both of us are just a mess...how do u stop tellin the person u love that u love them..were only young me 20 she 19 and thought that because of the fact we are so young there could be things we are missing out on... but i just keep treating her like shes my gf i can't stop thinkin about whats shes doing and missing everything she has 2 tell me...we just don't know what 2 do and i find it sooo hard to follow the rules of a break up...shes my best friend in the whole world we are so close tell each other everything..and already theres this big hole inside that im frustrated and sad cause she told me she has it 2 and i don't want n e thing else 2 fill it up...ppl tell me time will help but i just don't want to ever loose feelings for her and if i ever tried to be with someone else i would feel so weird like i was cheating or something....and what makes it worse is shes the exact same way. its like shes still with me but i can't have er...never felt this b4..we agreed to take it slow but i feel the only way i can totally do it is if i cut her off completly. even tho still would take so long if not who knows if my feelings will ever go away...i just wana know what kinda rules there are or what 2 taking it slow and some advice on the whole situation. cause im at a time in my life where i hafta get things done but its just 2 hard without her...plz give me something that will stop the tears and show some kinda hope...shes just 2 big of a part of my lifeee:(

 

 

i would be very thankful with n eone that would have some sorta conclusion that involves her still being in my life somehow please post or email me at [email protected]

 

Thankss

[GuerreroAzteca]

hey bro,

 

if you guys are not together somethings up.

 

you are both young and sounds like your insecure about missing out.

 

you need to figure out if your both right for each other or not. you need to figure out if you would truly spend your lives together. you need to figure out if you even know what your looking for in a partner (or ready to settle down since your missing out? right?) because chemestry can blind you to that.

 

even if you figure this out and want it, it does not mean she will, so brace yourself and nip it in the bud man. It also does not mean that you will stop giving off an insecure signal about missing out, and will run to this everytime there is an issue. I just got off a 5 year relationship and it hurt a lot more than it had to if i had asked myself those questions.

 

I always thought i was missing out and still committed myself to the relationship, truth is if you feel a certain way it reflects on the relationship whether you choose to or not. She must feel insecure too.

 

i'm in pain right now man, so figure this out because you dont want it to last twice as long if its not what you both want...

[plowking]

i dono its just so weird because i asked myself do i want 2 spend the rest of my life with this girl and i just think that because were so young i can't tell yet but i feel i love her enough 2. and i dono i couldnt sleep last night i keep thinkin of things that i missed out on with her like how there are so many things i wanna know about her and i just don't want 2 be away from here am i crazy? we what