jmmm Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 i was wondering if this was just me or not. Generally i know it depends on a person's personality..but i just wanted a few opinions. How much affection do you get from your s/0 when you see them? lets say you only see them a few nights a week--do they often give you hugs, kisses without the intention of sex? i dont know if this is me or not and if i am justified but sometimes i feel i am not getting enough affection. I see my b/f a few nights a week...in general when i think of affection between him and i..i see the most affection is when the intention of it is to sleep with one another..then he is really all over me..but lets say its a thursday and there is no intention for sex...he really doesnt initiate any kisses or intimate hugs...i think rough housing to him is attention..he tickles me and pokes me etc etc and we have a few laughs and its cute..but aside from that..he does not really initiate any kisses unless its going to lead to something and doesnt ever give me a hug saying he missed me. I have even tried to kiss him without the intention of sex and he would always just make them short and it was obvious he didnt want to go into this long kiss so i stopped and made it short as well.. i have even told him before sometimes it seems you only want to be bothered is when you want something. I have even noticed that now the times we have sex are sometimes after we have been asleep for an hour or so..so its obvious it is not some romantic thing or it is in the morning sometimes too..it might be b/c he is tired and sometimes i am too..but i really cant remember the last time we did have sex after watching a movie together or after having some wine. This past weekend..i tried not to give him too much attention..i was nice and polite but i just wanted to see if he would initiate anything and he really didnt..he tried to lay near me and he probably was going to hold my hand..but i did not want to do anything that night so i tried to stay away from any compromising position..he tried to wake up me up that night in a subtle type way b/c he wanted something and i just said why are you poking me and went back to sleep and ignored it..that was the first time i rejected him in a way. he holds my hand often in the car and when we are out. but am i in some ways justified in feeling this way? ladies, would this be enough for you?
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