OverNow Posted December 29, 2007 Posted December 29, 2007 Hey man, your story sounds shocking. You've made far more progress than you think you have. You've gone a few months without talking to her, which is certainly something you should pat yourself on the back for. The way I see it, its all about percentages.. You feel 100% terrible, and its about doing all the little things to improve how you feel just a little bit. What I do is go out with friends as often as possible. If you don't go to many outings, organize some. If anyone else is going through what you're going through, talk to them. Lean on them and let them lean on you. Exercise as much as possible to exhaustion. Try to remove as many things that reminds you of her as possible in your plain sight. Drink some camomile tea. If all of these make you feel even..2% better, you're going to find it a little easier, but of course its never easy. Hang in there, you're not doing bad at all....
BalancenLuv20 Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 Adam it sounds like we are at about the same age. i am 20 and it has been the worst year of my life. Ive gone through so many mood swings, but nothing to get over the hump and get on with my life, she's still always consuming my life. If I were you, I would just prey she doesn't want anything to do with you. Think about it she has made you hit rock bottom and you have nothing to lose. I kept thinking my ex was different and that we'd have this innocent friendship 3 months after we ended it and she'd be good to me. She called me on xmas and we had a few good talks before that. I gave her a big hug when I saw her for a few minutes in person, but the truth came out today that she isn't who I thought she was and now she's gone for good. Just say to yourself "im a good guy not a bad guy and to go with that I am a good looking, talented, genuine human being with a lot to give and a big heart. I will overcome and one day I will be happy again." God bless you and everyone else on these boards who has a heart.
Author adam11 Posted December 12, 2008 Author Posted December 12, 2008 hi all. its been a year since i posted on here, I just want to say that I'm feeling great, I have a new girl, and I'm enjoying life! LIFE DOES GET BETTER, TIME IS THE HEALER, NO CONTACT IS THE WAY TO GO, KEEP URSELF OCCUPIED WITH THINGS!! Keep your heads up! love ya, AD X
Growingup Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 hi all. its been a year since i posted on here, I just want to say that I'm feeling great, I have a new girl, and I'm enjoying life! LIFE DOES GET BETTER, TIME IS THE HEALER, NO CONTACT IS THE WAY TO GO, KEEP URSELF OCCUPIED WITH THINGS!! Keep your heads up! love ya, AD X That is really awesome to hear, that made my day. Can you explain further what happened, when did you finally get over your ex? Did it happen after you met this new girl or did you begin to be happy by yourself and she just fell into your life after that?
Author adam11 Posted December 16, 2008 Author Posted December 16, 2008 That is really awesome to hear, that made my day. Can you explain further what happened, when did you finally get over your ex? Did it happen after you met this new girl or did you begin to be happy by yourself and she just fell into your life after that? hi, just time really, it got easier and easier and my brain just eventually accepted it. I dont give a **** about my ex anymore, she can do what she wants, she's out my life now. The new girl came after everything started getting easier as I doubt I could have started a new relasionship at the time. But shes made me forget about my ex alot though. that break up was one of the hardest things I've ever gone through in my life, but thats the past now, you have to learn to accept it, nothing stays the same, you're not the only person going through this and ther is a future ahead of you. its not easy, but you will pull through!! keep busy and stay positive. NO BLOODY CONTACT WITH THE EX EITHER! have a good week everyone at LS. Love yoooo xxxx
Goatsbreath Posted December 16, 2008 Posted December 16, 2008 I just read through the whole post and comments thinking this was happening now and at the end I realize it was a year ago, Full Cirlce though, I like that. Grats on happy times, I want some.
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