Aussie65 Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 I have been living with my man for the last year and well although we love each other very much there has been much conflict between us as well.We have many good times yet there are times when we argue and I mean bad.None of us know how to fight fair,both are head strong and we wont give in.I find I am the communicator,he shuts off.So here is what lead up to this... over time my boyfriend has contacted through his mobile ex girlfriends,three that I know of.I have felt threatened by this and more the fact recently a girl he liked before I came along he called up and told her that he and I had broken up and he was living on his own.This was three weeks ago and yes I called her when I found her number in his pocket.He had also told her he was moving out before Christmas and although she has assured me nothing is going on between her and him which I do believe.....he has taken on a job back down where she lives which is his home town.He and I had been arguing bad at this time and in many ways I feel I drove him away. He had asked me to move with him but due to my daughter going to school here I could not and cannot for the next year so here we are in the earlier stages of a long distance relationship. He has moved in with an elderly couple we know,they are both well aware we are trying to make this work.He works long hours including Saturdays so the arrangement is that he will either come to me (3 hours away) or I drive there on weekends.He has promosed me he wont be calling these girls anymore,that he needs to fix this as he wants to be with me.I am so confused and feel lost.I want so much to work things out but at the same time I am wondering if he is going to be just out of mind out of sight down there.I think this is a test to see how much he really does love me.Your all probably thinking...why waste your time.I do too...I just love him and feel we do have a good thing together,he just has to sort these issues out which he is trying to,we both are. I don't want to push him away anymore,I have been on his case since before he left and right now he is not happy with me.How can I turn this all around and make this work?
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