pjbouchard Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 Hello.... I'm a 24 y/o female who just started seeing an incredibly cool man of the same age.... We met online through one of those dating websites, and immediately hit it off chatting online for a week or so before he asked me on a date that friday night..We met at a sports bar and had an incredible night...drinking, laughing, talking...it was just awesome. We ended up kissing at the end of the night for a good half hour...just kissing....he was a gentleman. The next day he asked me on another date for Sunday. I met him down at the base where he lives (He's a Naval Electrician) and he took me down by the ocean, and it was all romantic and gorgeous and it was just perfect. We went back to his place and we just kissed for awhile again. Now I'm not saying I would have slept with him, cuz I wouldnt have, but he didnt try to do anything else other than kiss either....hmmm So the next night we're online talking and he started talking about this documentary he was watching about people with gender identity disorder. He was saying that he thinks he's one of those people. That he is quite girly...puts on a hard face at work, doesnt watch sports, loves romantic comedies and cooking, and dressing nice, etc. He said that he thinks that he should have been a girl. I asked him if he was bi and he said no, that he's hetero, but at times when he's in a "girly" mindset that he thinks he might be bi-curious. (He said that most men in general disgust him because they are pigs). He also said that he would never have like, surgery or anything like that but that he's dressed like a girl once. What does this all mean????? On one hand, I think this is fricken incredible to have a guy who posesses some feminine qualities....on the other hand, am i just setting myself up for failure that he's going to become transgendered a couple years down the road??? He says he's happy who he is, but this is all so confusing.
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