bigheartkindsoul Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 holding someone loving someone being loved watching dvd's while cuddling on the sofa cold nights cuddling up generally kissing having sex lovey texts n calls and all the other couples/being in love stuff I just miss these things, not with the ex just miss them in general, having someone special. Crying - how pathetic
Lyssa Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 holding someone - yup, same here loving someone - have that being loved - that too watching dvd's while cuddling on the sofa - oh gee whizz... makes two of us, sweetie! cold nights cuddling up generally - sigh! tell me about it!! kissing - the last time I kissed him was in August!!! having sex - been too long... lovey texts n calls - that's what keeps it going for us now and all the other couples/being in love stuff - oh hell yeah! I just miss these things, not with the ex just miss them in general, having someone special. Crying - how pathetic I miss it too! You know, you shouldn't think too much about all these stuff, sweetie. It's only gonna make you feel even more lonely... and yes, you said it - pathetic! I have been there... well, I put myself in that place now and then! I realised then how pathetic it was so I got myself busy. Don't force yourself into wanting something so bad... let things fall into its own place on its own time. I know you have a lot going on and concentrate on that. You have wonderful friends in RL and here to keep you busy! [[[bHKS]]]
oppath Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 You can have all those things, and still feel lonely and miserable. .So don't focus on what you do not have, focus on what you do have in your life.
Author bigheartkindsoul Posted November 6, 2007 Author Posted November 6, 2007 Yeah most days I do, just today and off day!
Author bigheartkindsoul Posted November 6, 2007 Author Posted November 6, 2007 holding someone - yup, same here loving someone - have that being loved - that too watching dvd's while cuddling on the sofa - oh gee whizz... makes two of us, sweetie! cold nights cuddling up generally - sigh! tell me about it!! kissing - the last time I kissed him was in August!!! having sex - been too long... lovey texts n calls - that's what keeps it going for us now and all the other couples/being in love stuff - oh hell yeah! I miss it too! You know, you shouldn't think too much about all these stuff, sweetie. It's only gonna make you feel even more lonely... and yes, you said it - pathetic! I have been there... well, I put myself in that place now and then! I realised then how pathetic it was so I got myself busy. Don't force yourself into wanting something so bad... let things fall into its own place on its own time. I know you have a lot going on and concentrate on that. You have wonderful friends in RL and here to keep you busy! [[[bHKS]]] Thank you my sweet. I'll hopefully be back on track tomorrow.
Stereogram Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 I miss loving someone physically and emotionally and having them you love you back with equal intensity. The girls I'm intensely attracted to never feel the same way...or can't because they are taken. I don't miss having a lot of girls throw themselves at me and then having to break it to them that I don't feel the same way about them. That's the way my world works. I hear you, bigheartkindsoul.
Timberlane Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 Awww, sweetie. I miss all of those things too. And you know what? So does my ex. We all do. It's just going to take a little while to find the right person to do those things with again. All of that gets me down several days out of the week. But then I go do fun stuff with my friends, meet nice women that might be available, and it seems a little less bleak. It really isn't bleak at all when I get a hold of the situation. I'm meeting new people every week it seems, and so are you I'm sure. And you have all of your new pals here. So it's not too bad when you think about it. Extra big and lingering hugs for you, sweetheart.
jcster Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 It's so weird...I don't miss that stuff at all. In fact, it sounds stressful to me. Just goes to show you how differently two people can look at something. Take a deep breath - just because you don't have it now doesn't mean that it can't happen tomorrow!
Author bigheartkindsoul Posted November 7, 2007 Author Posted November 7, 2007 I miss loving someone physically and emotionally and having them you love you back with equal intensity. The girls I'm intensely attracted to never feel the same way...or can't because they are taken. I don't miss having a lot of girls throw themselves at me and then having to break it to them that I don't feel the same way about them. That's the way my world works. I hear you, bigheartkindsoul. thanks, nice to know some guys feel the same way too and miss those things. Shows their softer sides.
Author bigheartkindsoul Posted November 7, 2007 Author Posted November 7, 2007 Awww, sweetie. I miss all of those things too. And you know what? So does my ex. We all do. It's just going to take a little while to find the right person to do those things with again. All of that gets me down several days out of the week. But then I go do fun stuff with my friends, meet nice women that might be available, and it seems a little less bleak. It really isn't bleak at all when I get a hold of the situation. I'm meeting new people every week it seems, and so are you I'm sure. And you have all of your new pals here. So it's not too bad when you think about it. Extra big and lingering hugs for you, sweetheart. Thanks hun, once again nice to know guys miss these things also.
Author bigheartkindsoul Posted November 7, 2007 Author Posted November 7, 2007 It's so weird...I don't miss that stuff at all. In fact, it sounds stressful to me. Just goes to show you how differently two people can look at something. Take a deep breath - just because you don't have it now doesn't mean that it can't happen tomorrow! What do you miss? I couldn't live my life not having those things in it occassionally. Seems sad but like you said different strokes for different folks.
jcster Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 What do you miss? I don't miss a lot, I guess. It's just that I'm looking forward instead of backward. You will only miss things when you look behind you.
Ariadne Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 Hey, Just go out with that old FWB already, at least he's willing to give you some love. Ariadne
Author bigheartkindsoul Posted November 7, 2007 Author Posted November 7, 2007 Such warmth and compassion.
Author bigheartkindsoul Posted November 7, 2007 Author Posted November 7, 2007 I don't miss a lot, I guess. It's just that I'm looking forward instead of backward. You will only miss things when you look behind you. How do you do that, I mean to say do you have any tricks or tips you can pass onto me?
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