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Okay. Here is a new thread, because the old one was just so negative.

I am over breaking nc, and over that friend. Today I am feeling pretty good. I see now why those particular challenges challenged me. And I am letting go of what no longer serves me.

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Been where you are, IMO and its not easy but happiness breeds happiness, same as sadness breeds sadness. Try to be happy as much as you can even if faking it and the real will follow naturally as a matter of course. :D

 

Good luck hun

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Thanks BHKS,

Admittedly, I'm half faking, but only half. The other half feels great. :D

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Thanks BHKS,

Admittedly, I'm half faking, but only half. The other half feels great. :D

 

Yeah kinda like that myself this evening, part sad but generally ok.

 

Funny how moods come and go.

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Hi, Spin -

 

I'm at that point, too. While I want to focus on my healing and grieve in a healthy way, sometimes I just drive myself nuts. :) I feel like sometimes I'm just a whiny basketcase and it's time I start being more fun to be around. It's time I stop letting them "win" by getting angry or obsessing about what they are doing. I need to stop giving up my power and focus on me and my great, shame-free life.

 

I started volunteering last weekend at the Humane Society and we were so busy, that for four hours I didn't even think about my STBXH, which is by far the longest stretch of time I've gone. In addition, I helped 3 kitties and 3 cats find new homes, which was so very rewarding. It's a good to know that, even though I feel this bad, I am still able to reach out and help others. I think volunteering, for me, is going to be a key point in my healing. No matter how crappy I feel, I can still be useful and helpful to others.

 

So, I'm with ya - I'm not going to pretend I won't have miserable days or moments, but I'm so done with letting it affect my work, my social life and my health.

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So is this the new happy thread? :D

 

*does a little happy dance*

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Go for it Spind! We are all rooting for you.

 

/cheer for the happy thread......... :bunny:

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Yayyy....i felt pretty good today as well.

 

Happy for you.xx

 

ps..what does 'IMO' mean?

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Yayyy....i felt pretty good today as well.

 

Happy for you.xx

 

ps..what does 'IMO' mean?

 

 

IMO = in my opinion

IMHO = Just add the word humble !

 

I suck at acronyms, so glad to help you out !

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If you're happy and you know it .. clap your hands..

If you're happy and know it.. clap your hands.

If you're happy and you know it.. if you're happy and know it.. if you're happy and know it .. clap your hands..

 

:p lalala.. not sure if you guys every sang that song as children?

... it's late and I need some sleep ;)

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*lol*

 

Clap clap clap ... go to sleeeeeep k10 ;)

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Thanks BHKS,

Admittedly, I'm half faking, but only half. The other half feels great. :D

 

Hi Spindy,

Hope you don't mind my calling you Spindy, it's just easier to type & rolls off the tongue nicely:)

I wrote something in Matty's thead that might make sense to you too, check it out.

I think you are on the perfect track to healing & getting over someone who will eventually regret & miss being with you. You'll see, keep a positive attitude!

Scorp

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lol..thankx for that. IMO u rock.haha.

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