benny boy Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 hi, i have just recently moved from England to Hong kong, and there is this girl in my english class who i cant just get out of my mind, i speak to her most days in person and on msn, we talk for ages on msn and in person. but the problems i have is that she is chinese and iam english, apparently she likes chinese, iam slightly over wieght. i just need help on what to do next, ask her out or what?
Ocean-Blue Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 hi, i have just recently moved from England to Hong kong, and there is this girl in my english class who i cant just get out of my mind, i speak to her most days in person and on msn, we talk for ages on msn and in person. but the problems i have is that she is chinese and iam english, apparently she likes chinese, iam slightly over wieght. i just need help on what to do next, ask her out or what? Don't ask her outright. Begin flirting. Show her what a hot stud you can be. If she appreciates a man who is smooth with his words, she may begin to see you under a different light (if she hasn't considered you as dating material yet). Play the game. Tease. Flirt. And then reel her in.
Phateless Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 Don't ask her outright. Begin flirting. Show her what a hot stud you can be. If she appreciates a man who is smooth with his words, she may begin to see you under a different light (if she hasn't considered you as dating material yet). Play the game. Tease. Flirt. And then reel her in. Don't just ask her. Women want a strong lead, a MAN who can take charge and bring her, not ask her. Also, kissing up and complimenting her constantly and buying her stuff will get you nowhere. You need to be the guy who's different from every other guy, who's interesting and fun and confident and independent. Gently tease and flirt with her... play with her a little bit to make her laugh. Good luck bro. If all else fails, she's your friend and you can flirt with her friends.
Ocean-Blue Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 Don't just ask her. Women want a strong lead, a MAN who can take charge and bring her, not ask her. Also, kissing up and complimenting her constantly and buying her stuff will get you nowhere. You need to be the guy who's different from every other guy, who's interesting and fun and confident and independent. Gently tease and flirt with her... play with her a little bit to make her laugh. Good luck bro. If all else fails, she's your friend and you can flirt with her friends. True enough. BUT OP, remember to be sensitive to her culture. What may be cool in Britain may not be seen as cool in HK. There are some cultural nuances that you may need to pick up before you go ahead with this girl. Scope out the scene, learn more about women from HK. And then put your plan into action. Culture is very relevant here.
Lyssa Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 Well Benny Boy, there you have it! I would do just the above! Flirt... and flirt more. But don't over do it! Be different but don't lose yourself!
Phateless Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 True enough. BUT OP, remember to be sensitive to her culture. What may be cool in Britain may not be seen as cool in HK. There are some cultural nuances that you may need to pick up before you go ahead with this girl. Scope out the scene, learn more about women from HK. And then put your plan into action. Culture is very relevant here. Good advice, glad she caught that, I totally spaced that part. As a white-boy myself, I've noticed a lot of Asian girls tend to like me, so you may not be too bad off. If she says she only dates Chinese, that might be coming from her parents, which would make you off-limits and a "bad-boy" while will most likely work to your advantage, to tell you the truth...
Ocean-Blue Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 cheers every one So Benny, whatcha gonna do with this girl? Don't let the little overweight discourage you from pursuing her. There's to a man than his pudge. Plus, you could always work out - it's not insurmountable.
Author benny boy Posted November 6, 2007 Author Posted November 6, 2007 iam just going to play it cool talk to her, try to be some one different from the chinese guys, and have fun with her
Ocean-Blue Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 iam just going to play it cool talk to her, try to be some one different from the chinese guys, and have fun with her Well good luck with that!
Ocean-Blue Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 thanks alot guy!! It's actually gal, but you're welcome nonetheless.
tomwiz Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 I'm have a little pudge, however it doesnt really discourage me from tlaking to women...if they can't see threw a few extra pounds, not worth talking to anyway...Go for it, you only live once
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