blacksheep Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 Hey, Im in a situation that really has me confused and is messing with my head a bit. Around 8-9 months ago, myself and a girl i who i was working with (she is 18 i am 20) became really close, we went out together a few times had great chemistry the works but it just kinda fell through. Since then, we have continued to work together (just a part time job, we spend about 10 hours a week working together) and we are really close friends. Since near-fling, we both moved on to other people, she has been in a relationship for 6 months whilst i am playing the field somewhat. I ended up getting myself into a rather messed up situation the other week. While out in town with my friends, I ended up hooking up with the girl that my best mate has been going after. I really don't like her and don't want to hurt my best mate it was just a drunken mistake that he doesn't know about, the problem is i like this girls best friend who never leaves her side. This situation however is not what im to talk about. Whilst deciding whether or not to tell my best mate about this, i confided in my good work mate about this situation. We ended up joking about this little double love triangle, however later that night she started texting me. She was saying how much she loves me, sending texts like "love love love" and "i will love you always" and saying that she wished she was part of this little conundrum. She literally texted me nonstop from 10 at nights till 4 in the morning. Then the next morning i got more texts from her and again that night and throughout the next day. All of which saying how she loves and we should start hanging out more and doing stuff. Basically it took my a while 2 get over her the first time, and i think she knows this. And to me it feels like she is just saying this to get me to like her again, but doesnt really want to go through with any thing. Reminder: she does have a boyfriend and she is NOT a slut at all, shes just not that type of girl.We never really texted that much normally so this is a new thing. I really dont know what to think of the situation. Any advice on what you think she is trying to say would be greatly appreciated as its messing with my head a bit at the moment, Cheers
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