confusedone2 Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 I met a guy who swept me off of my feet just 2 months ago. This guy was so different than any other guy I met for he appeared to be really into me. We did everything together! He was like a soulmate. His birthday came up and he wanted a rental car. I rented it and took time off of work to be with him. The first day he got the car I didnt see him because his son had a birthday party. The next day he was busy and the next day and the next day. His excuse was that he was working really hard and that he needed to focus all week to prepare for his party, therefore I never seen him till 2 or 4am in the morning, when it was time for bed. He even called me a couple of times and told me to get ready but never made it.... oooh this @#$%% me off!! He also had to nerve to promise me if I be patient this week he would be all mine next week ( what a jerk) On the day of the party I felt so stupid and so humiliated that I returned my clothes and asked him to take me to do so. This went into a uproar and I didn't hear from him until 6pm the next day when I called him and he was so excited to tell me how the party went and told me he was going to call me back. At 2am his phone was turned off and he called me at 11am the next day. The car also had to be turned in this day also but I know that his reason for calling wasn't because of the car. His excuse was that he hadn't talked to me in awhile and that he he wanted to see me. I really like this guy and I actually want to hurt his little scorpio feelings like he hurt mine. I am so sick about this, I even still will answer my phone for him because I don't want him to know that I am mad. Please give me some advice to help me sleep!
Author confusedone2 Posted November 6, 2007 Author Posted November 6, 2007 You know what!! I have heard him talk about his kid a lot and I have been with him while the child's mother has called. He ignores her at times but I am not sure what is going on. I'm just so hurt and not sure what to do. He did mention her going to his party
Crestfallen_KH Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 I'd just ask him. Don't ask him on a voice mail message - do it in person, ideally, but ask him. "But Crestfallen, if he is married, won't he just deny it?" Why yes, he more than likely will, but HOW he responds will tell you whether he is or not. If he gets flustered or looks away or gets angry or tries to turn it around on you ("I can't believe you don't trust me!") then you have your answer. Or, he might tell you the truth. My guess is that he is, but he may possibly be separated. Either way, you deserve to know.
Author confusedone2 Posted November 6, 2007 Author Posted November 6, 2007 Crestfallen, What does that have to do with anything. His ignoring me, He came to my house to sleep everynight. What does him being married have to do with his jerkness!! Im tired of crying and I need some closure. He barely calls now!! What can I do..... call him? ask him over? He'll only deny it!!
Crestfallen_KH Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 Ok, I guess I don't understand what advice you are looking for. Does it not matter if he's married? Do you just want someone to also call him a jerk? I guess I just don't understand the advice you need. Maybe someone else can help.
Author confusedone2 Posted November 6, 2007 Author Posted November 6, 2007 I dont want you to call him a jerk too!! I am sorry but I have not been thru this before I really want to make him feel the way I do but its not possible. I just want some advice sorry that you took this the wrong way I guess I am just stressed with all the drama.
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