jimmer21 Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 well its been a munf of no contact from her and 2 weeks from me. she sed to her friends she missed me and will always love me but will never get back with me and stuff im so confused i love her so much and she is goin to uni in a years time. i cant take it anymore
brothermartin Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 well its been a munf of no contact from her and 2 weeks from me. she sed to her friends she missed me and will always love me but will never get back with me and stuff im so confused i love her so much and she is goin to uni in a years time. i cant take it anymore You let her go. Simple. You cant make her come back to you and you cant make her change her mind about you. Sorry man. I know that may not be what you wanted to hear, but its the truth.
BlueAndYellow Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 I really don't understand why people do that. Why they say they love you but don't want to get back together. I'm a dreamer, so I'm like "I love you, you love me, why are we complicating things? Let's be together!". Of course there are problems, but as long as people love each other... Shouldn't that be what counts? Unfortunately, most people don't think like this. I myself love my ex to death but wouldn't come back to him because of the way he broke up with me. He was totally inconsiderate and hurt me a lot. But that doesn't really matter, because he doesn't want me back anyway. But your situation is wierd. You love her, she says she will always love you... And yet she doesn't want you back! You have to look for the reasons for that. Did you have a lot of problems in your relationship? Did you hurt her in a way she can't forgive? Who broke up with who? It might be she doesn't really feel what she's saying, but if she really loves you I believe it's worth a shot. Work on the reasons why you broke up, have a chat with her, even if it's just to tell her how you feel. Sometimes people can't see the obvious by themselves. If you can break NC, talk to her. There's a reason she's saying that to her friends.
Author jimmer21 Posted November 6, 2007 Author Posted November 6, 2007 i know its frustrating. we wer arguin a bit over small stuff and had a big argument the night we split. she is being highly pressured from her parents thats the problem. i would like to break the no contact but i think i will probly get rejected agan and i dont want to lose the happy state i am now in even though i love her more than anything. we wer very close and had some amazing times, i mean she told me like a week after it happened she was over it and was very harsh but her friends say she still cries and findin it hard a month on so i think she is just forcin the issue for a few reasons. i think maybe i just going to keep nc going for a wile see what happens all my close frends and fam want me to keep it up. she hasnt got any interest in anyone and has said she wont be able to for a wile and etc i just hope she comes round before she goes to uni.
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