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The deal: I am single recently, and the boy in question single in just a couple of weeks. I was attracted to him but he had a girlfriend. The other day, on the train, and with a budy, he mentioned to us that she broke-up with him. Than he sit next to me and making questions as "in 10 I'm a 20 sensual boy?!, as a joke, because he is more like an intelecctual (good lookking too), and he his body was toward me, and more!! he had his in arm on my seat, as couple do in the cinema, with eye contact. It was just obvious he was flirting....moving on!

The next day he ignored me in the break , because he pass by me and didn't said hello, neither I but I thought that it was better that he made it first. In the train i saw him on the other side and he was staring at me. Embareced no?! Like none of us said...couple minutes later, another train, bang, he was looking again. Finally, in another train, lol, our buddy come over, and he finally made a question, talked 10 sec. with me, and than he was with an upset face, bahhhhh, i thought that it was because of the ex...maybe. My buddy and I made him laugh, he smiled at me with such a cute expression :oops: And we made quick eye contact, well, maybe I did it too much times.

Maybe its because of I interpreted him badly that he ignored me, agian today. Passed by him 3 times, the first was he that come over the group without a word, but later and he said hello to my friend!! (he knows her) not to me.

Maybe he is sad about ex, and that way he is laying back, confused about, amnesic about the flirt, I don't know...

Opinions?!

P.s.: sorry my english, not my first language.

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OK.

1. What is your first language?

 

2. How old are you?

 

and

 

3. Why don't you make the first move?

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Hmmm

 

Portuguese, university...

 

[sIZE=2][COLOR=#000080]what does that have to do with anything?!

[/COLOR][/sIZE]Because he maybe be thinking on his ex... how do I know if he even wnat something... he should make the first move!

I want to know is in what is he thinking!

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I am guessing from your description of events that you are about 15 years old. He's interested, there's very little you can do to screw this up. JUST RELAX and hang out with him. If you're interested you can invite him somewhere.

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Hmmm

 

Portuguese, university...

 

[sIZE=2][COLOR=#000080]what does that have to do with anything?!

[/COLOR][/sIZE]Because he maybe be thinking on his ex... how do I know if he even wnat something... he should make the first move!

I want to know is in what is he thinking!

 

If you want to know what he's thinking, ask him. If he's interested in you, he'll tell you.

 

Please, dont take offense to my questions. I was just trying to understand YOU so that I could help you understand HIM.

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He maybe hurting right now. Instead of him needing a girlfriend, why not go for coffee and talk? You'll get to know him enough to see if you want to move on. It maybe good or awful timing.

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I'm 18 geezzzz

 

Thank you for advises! I'll be more participative.

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I'm 18 geezzzz

 

Thank you for advises! I'll be more participative.

 

Well you're overanalyzing and a lot of the details you're trying to analyze have no meaning. In all honesty, you're just going to mind-f*ck yourself unless you just calm down, be friendly and flirty and ask him out.

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