hellogoodbye Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 Hey so this is the deal: I met this guy on saturday when me and my girls went clubbing...we had a good time dancing and laughing, at the end of the night I got his number...when should I call, and at what time of the day do you call a random when you have no idea their schedule?!
Lovegod Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 Call whenever it's convenient for you and leave a message if he's not there.
latefragment Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 Since you met him on Saturday whilst clubbing, I would call on Tuesday or Wednesday - probably Wednesday, at around 6 pm. What do you think???
Author hellogoodbye Posted November 5, 2007 Author Posted November 5, 2007 I was thinking that I will call tuesday...like 6 ish like you said, my friend suggested between 6-10 pm. Never really called a guy first so Im a bit clueless as to how this goes! but we'll see
compassion42 Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 You could call today...I don't think you'd want to wait too long though. But in the future.... Giving him YOUR number will eliminate the guessing game as to when to call him
gonetildecember Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 I think the fact the HE offered his number is a sign that HE is interested.. When I was dating and wasn't really interested I would ask for his number, so that I wouldn't actually have to worry about him calling me.. and could call him if I ever wanted to. Personally, I would call today.. tomorrow at latest.. between 6-10 ish like your friend said. Thats when most ppl are usually done class/work and before they head to bed. ya and leave a message if you don't get him.
Author hellogoodbye Posted November 5, 2007 Author Posted November 5, 2007 Yeah I wanted to have his number it makes me feel more in control rather than him having mine. I think I will call today after 6 ish. Ill keep posted on what happens.
Blue Eyed Brain Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 I think it's a false control.... he ultimately has the ability to accept/deny the call or invite. Although, I do not think this will be the case. I also don't like to leave messages. I would make direct contact with him first. I love hearing guy's voices and reactions. It's a total turn-on for me.
dbtmarley Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 Three day rule only applies to women. Your late, you shoulda called da man yesterday! At 1pm no less when he is watching football.
latefragment Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 dbtmarley are you serious? you mean if a girl gets a guy's number, the so-called "3-day-rule" goes out the window and the sooner she calls the better? I find that a little surprising.
dbtmarley Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 dbtmarley are you serious? you mean if a girl gets a guy's number, the so-called "3-day-rule" goes out the window and the sooner she calls the better? I find that a little surprising. Hey I just know the guy is sitting by the phone waiting.... lol. It's the guy that has to wait three days so he doesn't seem desperate, not the girl. It's the law of the wild, you must not have watched animal kingdom.
Author hellogoodbye Posted November 6, 2007 Author Posted November 6, 2007 okay, so I did call....and there was no answer I got voicemail..I didn't leave a msg! I know I know but I always feel super weird leaving voice mail....but what do I do now...Should I try again tomorrow? Should I wait till he returns the call...Most people dont usually return unknown numbers though...hmm
Author hellogoodbye Posted November 6, 2007 Author Posted November 6, 2007 k so i left a voice mail so. i guess we shall seeee
Phateless Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 Hey so this is the deal: I met this guy on saturday when me and my girls went clubbing...we had a good time dancing and laughing, at the end of the night I got his number...when should I call, and at what time of the day do you call a random when you have no idea their schedule?! you met on a friday night, call on sunday whenever you want. invite him to something next week. if he likes you, it really doesn't matter when you call, what you say, or what you invite him to. if he likes you, he'll go. have whatever you're inviting him to already planned. "my friends and i are going to see a movie wednesday after work. are you in?" "there's a party on friday night. would you like to come?" "let's go to farmers market together on thursday :)" easy. keep us posted, girlie.
birdie Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 I know girls like to feel in control but I think as a woman you definitely have advantage if you give your number to the man and wait for the call. If he is interested he will call, if he isn't, he won't. If a guy gave me his mobile number, I would call it straight away in front of him and say 'now you have my number, feel free to call'. that's it
Author hellogoodbye Posted December 3, 2007 Author Posted December 3, 2007 well just to update i did call i got voicemail everytime left a msg never got a call back ....so i guess thats dead end. o well!
EYECANDY000 Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 call today and leave a message. If hes busy or dont pick up the phone then he would call at a ore convient time when he has your individed attention.He may really be interested and wants to talk to you soon. As for me, if someone waits about a week to call, when they finally do call im not so interested any more.
Lovegod Posted December 4, 2007 Posted December 4, 2007 well just to update i did call i got voicemail everytime left a msg never got a call back ....so i guess thats dead end. o well! Yep, no point in wasting time on someone who doesn't return phone calls. Time to move onto better things.
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