Woggle Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 So far my ex has not tried anything violent and has obeyed the restraining order but she is telling anybody that will listen that I abused her and did all these horrible things. This is the same crap she tried to pull in court and she was exposed as a liar. According to her I raped her, put a gun in her mouth and beat her with vacumn cleaner attachments. She also says she tried to shoot me because she was afraid for her life. I would rally rather just forget she even existed but I never did any of this crap and I don't want people thinking I am some abuser.
reboot Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 Talk to a lawyer. Possibly you could sue her for libel or slander or whatever.
amaysngrace Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 Legally you can slap her with a slander charge and make her pay monetary compensation for damages. Providing you have witnesses. And can prove it's damaging some aspect of your life. But maybe I'm wrong. I'm not a lawyer. So maybe you should talk to a lawyer. Is the bitch worth anything? Cause if she's not it'll be hard to find a lawyer. But you can sue anybody for anything in small claims court. Honestly I'd let it go. Too much energy, too much drama. Unless there is a really big pay day in store, I'd let it go. And even if money was big, I'd think long and hard about opening suit.
Author Woggle Posted November 5, 2007 Author Posted November 5, 2007 By now everybody knows she's a loon so maybe I should just ignore it and let her spout whatever crap she can come up with. She is just trying to play the victim as she always does.
blind_otter Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 I would recommend ignoring her. You don't want to call attention to yourself when she's all crazy like that. You'll jus draw her attention to you.
Author Woggle Posted November 5, 2007 Author Posted November 5, 2007 I would recommend ignoring her. You don't want to call attention to yourself when she's all crazy like that. You'll jus draw her attention to you. This is probably what she is trying to accomplish.
littlekitty Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 By now everybody knows she's a loon so maybe I should just ignore it and let her spout whatever crap she can come up with. She is just trying to play the victim as she always does. Woogle, anyone who really needs to know, know's the truth by now. I highly doubt she's influencing any of your friends, family or anyone that really knows you and knows the situation. It's going to be people that probably don't really matter any more? Let it go. In some ways you going after her for it, just gives some of the power back to her. She'll know it's bothering you. That she's still effecting your life even without getting near you.
allina Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 From what I recall a judge determined these charges to be false. She got busted with slander during the divorce and the judge seemed like someone who wasn't going to let that happen. Chances are you can do something about it, especially since a court already ruled against her for it once.
Author Woggle Posted November 5, 2007 Author Posted November 5, 2007 She wasn't convicted of perjury or anything but her lying in court is a big reason why the judge gave me the house and I didn't have to pay her a dime in alimony. I don't kn ow if I will persue action because I just want this over with. She is moving out of state next year and she will be telling her new buddies in Florida all types of tales.
amaysngrace Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 She is moving out of state next year and she will be telling her new buddies in Florida all types of tales. So let her. Do you really think anybody who'd be her friend is desirable enough to make you care what they think about you?? What she gonna do...tell tales while passing the crackpipe?
Lizzie60 Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 So far my ex has not tried anything violent and has obeyed the restraining order but she is telling anybody that will listen that I abused her and did all these horrible things. This is the same crap she tried to pull in court and she was exposed as a liar. According to her I raped her, put a gun in her mouth and beat her with vacumn cleaner attachments. She also says she tried to shoot me because she was afraid for her life. I would rally rather just forget she even existed but I never did any of this crap and I don't want people thinking I am some abuser. I very much doubt you can do anything about this... From your posts here and from what people perceive from you (if you are coming out like you are on here) I bet they will believe her. You can always pay for a letter from a lawyer to scare the sh*t out of her... I don't know what else you can do... I would ignore her.
coco_milkshake Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 Ignore her. Dont give her the satisfaction of letting her know she has got to you. Let her say what she likes, people will realise eventually that she is lying.
whichwayisup Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 So far my ex has not tried anything violent and has obeyed the restraining order but she is telling anybody that will listen that I abused her and did all these horrible things. This is the same crap she tried to pull in court and she was exposed as a liar. According to her I raped her, put a gun in her mouth and beat her with vacumn cleaner attachments. She also says she tried to shoot me because she was afraid for her life. I would rally rather just forget she even existed but I never did any of this crap and I don't want people thinking I am some abuser. Woggle, I think crazy actions speak loud and clear. People who know you, like you and are in your life, KNOW what she's done so I doubt anyone would believe her anyway. And, if by chance they DO believe her, cut them OUT of your life. You should actually start by cutting out that mutual friend as SHE is no friend of yours, she's your ex's friend. Don't worry about it Woggle. Best revenge is to live well, be happy and love your wife that is in your life now. Let go of the ex, the less you hear about her, the better. AGAIN, tell that mutual friend to STOP telling you sh.it about your ex. You don't need that in your life.
whichwayisup Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 She wasn't convicted of perjury or anything but her lying in court is a big reason why the judge gave me the house and I didn't have to pay her a dime in alimony. I don't kn ow if I will persue action because I just want this over with. She is moving out of state next year and she will be telling her new buddies in Florida all types of tales. Because of this, again, don't worry about it. Don't do anything because all it will do is allow your ex power over you. The less she knows about you the better...Just like the less you know about her the better. By now everybody knows she's a loon so maybe I should just ignore it and let her spout whatever crap she can come up with. She is just trying to play the victim as she always does. Exactly!
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