funkybassplayer Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 Hey if you give even when you are feeling low, its a good thing to do. Giving love, help or charity will help you feel better about yourself, and others around you will give you the love you need. When your feeling low, you need to dig to your lowest dephts to keep you even half functioning, but also putting out, will help bring in. To put out love and help will bring back to you the same. I know its hard, but maybe try it. Becoming a bigger person, and to help you grow and move on from the loss requires to give, and to take the love that comes with that act, and it will push the pain out as well. When i was low, i did much giving, and i found it helped. Im 6 months on now, and moved on alot, but of course do miss them, but other than that, im good. I gave a small amount tp animal charitys, and spent more time with my mum, who i did lots of jobs for, and with a particular understanding freind. Its important to be around people who really care and love you in your lowest times, but also equally important to be on your own as well to feel the pain, and not to run away from it. Try not to direct anger and bad feeling at the ex, but use that energy to better use. Main thing when your in the first few weeks of a break-up, do healthy stuff, walks gym, and drink water, and understand that this feling will pass, in time. In the first 2 months, i thought it would never go. Also if you feel you have to, reach out for help, it may be that the low feelings are a good time to explore yourself, and your deep thoughts, and issues. We all have them.
Scorpio13c Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 Hey Funky, I've read many of your threads & advice to others here. I personally think you've given well beyond your dues to help many sufferers here, i commend you for that! You are truely a good soul! As a fellow musician, may i suggest too, that you start writing some songs? Although i haven't the will myself to, right now, i think it would be highly beneficial to you to do so. They say & i tend to agree, that you write the best music after a heartbreak ) Take care man & thanks for all you have given here! Scorp
AriaIncognito Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 I always feel better after I give too. My work is doing a coat drive. I found a coat at a store for like nothin a year ago on clearance and bought it to donate, so this year I can. :-) Someone will be warm because of that, and that's a good thing around here.
Author funkybassplayer Posted November 6, 2007 Author Posted November 6, 2007 Hey Funky, I've read many of your threads & advice to others here. I personally think you've given well beyond your dues to help many sufferers here, i commend you for that! You are truely a good soul! As a fellow musician, may i suggest too, that you start writing some songs? Although i haven't the will myself to, right now, i think it would be highly beneficial to you to do so. They say & i tend to agree, that you write the best music after a heartbreak ) Take care man & thanks for all you have given here! Scorp Im not really into writing songs, but i enjoy playing live, and now n again i have the need to write funky jazzy bass instumentals which i record for my self really. Im hear more now to try and help others if i can, cos its something that gives me a great joy to recevive a thank you, but also cos its been 6 months, and i feel i know what many new guys are going through, so for now i post to put out really, and help others.
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