alwayswondering Posted May 15, 2003 Posted May 15, 2003 I went to college with this guy, mike, we were really good friends and just "clicked". We had a lot of classes together and had lots in common. I liked him but had a boyfriend at the time. He called me a couple of times but I brushed him off since I had a boyfriend, but he did not know I had a boyfriend. He graduated shortly thereafter and I graduated the next year. This was in 1999. Two years ago, I decided to call him out of the blue since he had always been on my mind and the boyfriend was long gone. I called and spoke to his mother who gave me his number. I called him and ne called me a couple of times and were supposed to go out. He never called and then ended up callig me late one night, drunk, for a "booty call". We had not seen each other since college and never even as much as hugged. That was the last I heard from him. Today, I ran into him. He is the manager of a popular store. I was with a girlfriend and he grabbed me and gave me a big hug ans asked what I was doing now. I was elated. I have though about him many, many times over the years. I just have a feeling about him and really want to date him. I don't think he is married but may have a girlfriend?? I went out to my car and decided to go back in to gove him my number once again but I went back in the store and followed him around forever. I don't know if he saw me and was running or if he didn't see me. I got discouraged and left. I find it hard to believe that he would hide from me after he grabbed me and acted so positively, but he is a man. So, what do I do? Do I call the store, talk to him and ask if he's married and if not, give him my number, do I go back in and risk getting humiliated, or do I forget the whole thing? I really, really have strong feelings for him and have for years. Please help soon !!!
Tony T Posted May 15, 2003 Posted May 15, 2003 Call the store and ask him if he'd like to have lunch with you one day. I'm sure he gets some kind of lunch hour. If that's inconvenient, ask him out to an early dinner. That's pretty harmless and during that time you can get just about all the information you'll ever need to make future decisions concerning him. YOU make the move and do it soon!
Lila Posted May 16, 2003 Posted May 16, 2003 I agree with Tony. Make a move and plan something casual. Maybe then you can talk to him and see what his situation is. Also, if you have feelings for him...it wouldn't hurt to find out if he has the same feelings for you. Good luck!
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