kirby89 Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 Ok! so hears the story in a nutshell. I have fallen completely in love with my xGF/ best friend who is also in love with me. The only problem is that she just had a rough break up with another guy and she is still hurting from it. She is scared that if she lets herself get into another serious relationship that she might get hurt again so she just wants to stay friends. This is also really hard on me because she is my best friend and i dont want to lose what we have as friends. But this is where it gets the most painful for me! Since she has recently come out and told me that she is in love with me, i still have hope that we may get back together in the future. But the truth is that it hurts SO SO SO bad not being with her that i dont know how much longer i can cope with it. OH! and to top it all off, she might be moving away next year. Should i get over her? if so, how do i do it and still stay friends?
ninjaturtles Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 You say she is your XGF/bestfriend? How long ago did you 2 date, how long for and who broke up with who when you 1st dated?
Author kirby89 Posted November 5, 2007 Author Posted November 5, 2007 we started dating from last March to July. So for only about 4 months. She told me that she didnt really want a serious relationship (she was in the same situation as she is now). but after 4 months, she realized that we were getting way too serious and she ended it. (note: the guy who she dated after me was a guy she was off and on with for over 2 years. they are finally over with each other now. he has hurt her alot and therefor is also the reason she was afraid to get in a serious relationship with me the first time)
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