FooledOnce Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 Been doing NC since Halloween after a 5.5yr relationship. It's really funny how my thoughts about my ex change literally by the minute. Earlier, I really, really wanted to call her and discuss the last email I wrote her which came off too harsh. I was even practicing exactly what I would say to her and developing 'talking points' for the conversation while holding the phone in my hand. Then, i thought that I don't wanna get back together with her and that there's no way that I could have possibly been too harsh in any email. Then, i think that NC will be the way that will make her miss me and get her back. It's impossible to tell what i will think from minute one to minute two. My head is just messed, messed up.
heartoutside Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 which is why you need to do NC, to clear your head, not to get her back....clear your head, then maybe if you're up to it, after a few weeks of complete NC you can maybe re-evaluate the situation.
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