joshua1983 Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 Greetings, I have a major problem regarding two of my very good friends (who have been dating for a while). We will call the guy Y and the girl X. Basically Y and and I have been best friends since high school. As a freshman I met X and we became great friends. In my sophemore year, Y and a bunch of my other friends came down to Providence for a reunion. X met Y here, they hit it off totally and started dating and have been doing so for the last 3-4 years and are still going strong. Y's working in Vermont at the moment, so X and Y's relationship is a long distance one at the moment. But here's where my issue begins. Last week me and a few other guys were chilling at Y's place. I wanted to check my mail on his compiter, and he was cool with it. Except he hadn't deleted his history, and there was a load of porn like EVERYWHERE. That's all fine, even I look at porno when I'm in a relationship. But on his desktop he had some pictures of X's friends (female). This was a bit weird, but all the pics had one thing in common: 1. They had been taken off MySpace/Facebook and 2. The girls were wearing "revealing" clothes etc. Now this kinda creeped me out a bit, so I asked him straightout, "dude what is this ****?" He was totally honest, and said that he fantasized about loads of chicks, including X's friends. And that he would get their pics of the net (MySpace, Facebook etc) to whack off to later. But it gets worse, when he was deleting the pics off his desktop, I caught a glance at one of the pics, it was of X's sister. I didn't say anything, but Y asked me to not tell X about this, and that he did love her, but he had a really high sex drive. The thing is all my other friends didn't think it was weird, so who am I to judge. I see X a lot more than Y because we work near each other. Do you think I should tell X about this? I mean I am single now & sure I fantasize about lots of girls (even when in a relationship), but just the thought of saving pics of girls of the net creeps me out a bit. X always asks me about Y, like jokingly "So has he been cheating on me? You can tell me I won't mind :)". And this other day she asked that, and I had a weird look on my face. She didn't say anything but she's the kind of person who can catch onto something whilst looking like she didn't. I feel guilty in two ways, like I am keeping something from X, but at the same time I'm doing a **** job of keeping Y's secrets safe. It's a catch 22. Should I just shut up? Should I advise Y to tell X about this? I just don't want to see anyone get hurt in the long run. Thanks in advance Joshua
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