joel Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 can u tell by looking at someone if they are ur type or not-if so how-examples please. my friend saw this guy and i said would u go for him-she said ah no hes not my type-just looking at him -she never talked to the guy. she said u can tell by just looking. she said she can tell by looking at the guy if hes her type or not. i was huh now isn;t that kind of premmature . how can u and do any of u guys do it. like for me if i see a girl who wears too much makeup , dresses too fashionable, too $$ clothes, $ cell phone, - i think shes not my type-as she proably looking for a $$ guy , and thats not me. i am a simple hoody and jeans guy and not loaded. i think she go for the metrosexual guy with the nice car, cool haircut...etc ok a couple goes out on a date-first date and then after the first or second date they find out that she isn't my type. what does the term "she or he isn't my type" what exactly is that . any examples. i'm sure this has happen with some of u guys and said yea the girl or guy is great- but "he or she isn't my type" what are they meaning when they say that. u go out with a girl -on how many dates can u find out if this girl and u have chemistry, she is into u, u are into her-on how many dates can u find oout. what are some clues u use. in what ways can u find out shes not using u for a free coffee, free dinner, give me examples if u can
pollywag Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 My child, when a person says "he/she is not my type" at first glance it is just a polite way of saying "I don't find them physically attractive, they do nothing for me in a physical aspect" It's sort of like when Mother Magdalen has a cold and tells us to pass her a tissue so that she could dab her nose. When in actuality what she means to say us "pass me a paper muffler so that I can soften the blow of my loud trombone."
uniqueone Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 Of course you can tell. Maybe you're just one of those types who bases little on physical attraction. That's not the case with most people though. Attraction is very personal for some people. Personally, no matter how hard I try, I can't be attracted to guys who are over 6'2. I'm also not attracted to guys who are overweight. We often look for features that are similar to someone that we grew up with (such as a parent). This could be in something as minute as a jawline or in the shape of eyes that they have. Without a woman being aware of it, the guy with the round eyes might remind her of her fathers eyes. Same with body type. That's just how physical attraction works.
love4ever Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 can u tell by looking at someone if they are ur type or not-if so how-examples please. my friend saw this guy and i said would u go for him-she said ah no hes not my type-just looking at him -she never talked to the guy. she said u can tell by just looking. she said she can tell by looking at the guy if hes her type or not. i was huh now isn;t that kind of premmature . Yea basically...I mean its not like I personally have an entire "type". But there are some basics like I'm not into skinny guys....it's purely physical. For me if there isn't an attraction we would be no more than friends. how can u and do any of u guys do it. like for me if i see a girl who wears too much makeup , dresses too fashionable, too $$ clothes, $ cell phone, - i think shes not my type-as she proably looking for a $$ guy , and thats not me. i am a simple hoody and jeans guy and not loaded. i think she go for the metrosexual guy with the nice car, cool haircut...etc When you say it like that it seems more like your trying to gauge her type...you can only judge your self not others. I mean haven't you ever seen the hot girl with the ordinary guy...it can be done.
uniqueone Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 Maybe it's men. Maybe they have less of a type then women do. What was that thing I read.... if there were a 100 women in a room and a guy could have sex with as many of them as he wanted, he'd have sex with most of them. If there were 100 men in a room and a woman could have sex with as many of them as she wanted, she'd have sex with only a few.
underpants Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 I have been told and when I think back on my past I agree. I don't really have a 'type'. Maybe I like variety? I do enjoy meeting a knowing alot of different types of people and if there is a chemisty and connection I will entertain the notion of getting to know them better and maybe consider a romantic relationship with them. If not, then at the very worst I have made a friend or an acquaintance. At the very very worst I learn who and what traits to steer clear of. Get to know people and look beneath the wrapping before investing too much of your heart. If you are worried they are after your money, then ask for dutch and see how she reacts. That should weed out some.
troutie jr Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 My child, when a person says "he/she is not my type" at first glance it is just a polite way of saying "I don't find them physically attractive, they do nothing for me in a physical aspect" It's sort of like when Mother Magdalen has a cold and tells us to pass her a tissue so that she could dab her nose. When in actuality what she means to say us "pass me a paper muffler so that I can soften the blow of my loud trombone." Ahhh...the Pollywag Nice to see you posting in the dating forum. Your expression is quite enjoyable. Yes, I agree with Mother of all Dogs Chemistry does not happen over time. It either is there or it isn't.
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