DKS107 Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 my ex and i have been broken up for about 3 weeks now. we still talk and hang out but not as much. the other day he told me that he is beginning to really miss me. we hung out again last night but before i left the car i gave him a soft kiss. later in a text message when i asked he wasnt sure about it. the situation doesn't make any sense. does he really want to get back together or is he just missing us hanging out like good friends like we always did??
Lyssa Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 He probably missed hanging out with you the way you guys always did. I know when I told my ex I missed him, I meant that I missed out 'coffee at Coffee Bean' time. Same thing with him. It wasn't like we wanted to get back together. Did he say anything about getting back together?
Author DKS107 Posted November 4, 2007 Author Posted November 4, 2007 no he did not mention anything about getting back together. we did not even talk about "us". the past few times we hung out, but especially last night, it was us two just having more fun like we always used to. his this away message last night was "long day somewhat stressed out and unhappy". think he may be unhappy with the decision he made my ending it a few weeks back. like today for example i want to hang out with him but i'll let him put that offer on the table.
Lyssa Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 It could be that he was unhappy with whatever that is stressing him out. Could be anything from the break up or work. Family or studies. Was he the one that broke up with you? I know you must have a lot of questions/thoughts running through your mind. I know I did when my ex broke up with me. It was sudden too. It took me almost three years to get over him. In between I did try to get him to come back to me but I figured if he really wanted me, he would have done it on his own. Well when he did, it was way too late. I'm better off with someone else.
Author DKS107 Posted November 4, 2007 Author Posted November 4, 2007 yep he was the one that broke up with me. it was not even a bad event. we both still act and hang out like friends which makes it even more confusing because of his comment last night. he is going to be working on his cars today so i'll probably stop by sometime today and see if he mentions anything. like right now he's talking to me on aim. says good morning. it honestly brings a tear to my eye. you are right. it can take sometime to get over an ex. in your case that was a lot of time. he must have been some serious and monumental figure in your life. that's sad. but you made it.
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