scohr Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 I had dinner with this girl in my class, took a few months to work up the nerve to ask her, and to be honest it didn't go too well. I think I was nervous so our conversation was kinda awkward. I asked her if she wanted to do something again next week and she was very general and wouldn't put down a firm yes or no. However I've noticed that since our "date" she's been more conversant and makes more eye-contact. Sometimes she'll be talking and looking at me, and after she's done saying something she'll hold my gaze for a few more moments. Furthermore when I bring up friends, she'll always want to know their names and repeats it as if she's trying to memorize it. Whatsup?
oppath Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 Ask her what her favorite sexual position is. The key is you have to do it in the right context. What I mean by this is AMP UP your flirting. Push the envelope. Let her show you were it is safe to go, and unabashedly go a little bit further. That is the only way to determine interest, because if she responds when you know you've pushed things a little, then you know to go further. This does not mean be a creep. You have to figure out context for yourself, but some of my best conversations with women have been about anal sex 3 minutes after meeting them, and I swear, it wasn't creepy, it was a pleasant conversation. If you calibrate context correctly, you KNOW where a woman stands because she will show you were it is safe to take things.
Author scohr Posted November 4, 2007 Author Posted November 4, 2007 Well to be honest, I'm pretty conservative so I wouldn't be very comfortable talking about that heheh. Thanks for the advice though, any idea what she might be thinking? I don't want to ask her again to do something so soon w/out appearing needy either.
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