woundynewman Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 me and my girlfriend were going out for almost 2 years.we had alot of rough spots along the way but it always worked out in the end. well about a year ago. she left me because she said she didnt love me anymore. now i wasnt stupid i know that this wasnt the reason, there had to be more. so i did a little digging, and found out that she liked this older guy at our school. they started going out not that long after me and her broke up. well anyways, while she was with him she was also cheating on him with me. i dont really feel bad for this cauz i loved her so much...actualy it kinda hurt me cauz i loved her and she was not only fooling around me but with this other guy who i couldnt stand! well after he broke up with her, she came crawling back to me.i said yes cauz well i never really stoped loving her. well after all this, things were going good for a really long time..till she started talking to this other guy , he was just a "friend" she told me and reashured me that they wernt going to do anything cauz she loved me and he had a girlfriend to. well my girlfriend just left me. after almost 2 years. she just came out and said i'm not happy with you anymore, its over. well she got over me pretty quick talking about how she wants to be this guys everything. i'm not sure who the guy is but i'm think its the "friend" because he broke up with his girlfriend noth that long ago to. i dont know what to do. i love her so much. i did everything i could to make her happy. i know i should probaly say no if she comes back to me, but i probaly wont, if i said i wasnt i would just be lying to myself. i'm so confuised and dont know what to do, someone help me!
ninjaturtles Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 I hope you never take her back after this. I understand how it feels to love some1 so much, thus take the person back even after betrayal. Evidently however, she is using you..when she gets dumped--> she comes back to you, and when she finds another guy she runs off with this guy..she is not trustworthy and u need to ensure you never take her back...it will only end up the same way (her leaving you for someone else). As cliche as it sounds, you will find someone who will not take yourlove for granted. No one deserves to be played the way you've been. Nc,(lol)....read LS, mourn if you want to etc...but trust me..a part of you should be glad that she is gone..cos she is simlply no good for you. stay strong....and allow time to heal the wounds. She does not love you the way youlove her, its sad but such is life.xxx
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