Steve12345 Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 hi im 18 and i have a difficult time talking to women i grauduated from highschool 2 months out and im having trouble meeting women. i see alot of attractive women at the mall and on the bus and stuff but like how do i approach women just make eye contact and if they make eye contact back go in for it? say hello hows agoing? then ask for her number or if she would like to hangout sometime?
The Loacker Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 You're gonna have to practice, no doubt about it. Basically make eye contact and smile. If she smiles back, you've got a receptive audience. Go in, say hi, introduce yourself, ask her name, make chit chat for a few minutes, then ask for her number. Also, I cannot emphasize this enough, don't stay too long. When you get the number, that's your cue to leave.
BeautifulMusic Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 Most guys I've gone out with, I've met through work. It helps to have a context in which to approach someone, like you're working together and you strike up a conversation. Or the other night when I was out, someone almost collided with me and the guy behind me pulled me back in time and I joked that he was my hero because he saved me from getting injured. We ended up talking for awhile, even after it was time to leave. Try to find ways to strike up a conversation. It's harder to do with people you randomly see while you're out, but it's not impossible.
Tyra Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 Just introduce yourself in a good manner ,ask her how is she doing, and ask her for her name. Make sure that you have confidence while you talking to her. Because you don't want her to think that you are weak or not assertive. Ask her if she is involved with someone. If not, then ask her if she could give you her number so that yall could talk sometimes. And while you are having a conversation, don't say anything stupid, cause you definetly won't get the number. You may have been saying some nice things in the beginning, but at the end of the conversation, you say something foolish, and she may just give you the wrong number.
The Loacker Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 I wouldn't ask her if she is involved with someone. If she is, she'll tell you when you ask for her number. No need to throw in needless questions in that first conversation with her.
Author Steve12345 Posted November 3, 2007 Author Posted November 3, 2007 also i was wondering how do you talk to a girl who has headphones in lol i see that alot like do i go over to her and take a headphone out lol?
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