Author JeanQueen Posted November 3, 2007 Author Posted November 3, 2007 Thanks for all your concern guys. Everything went quit well last night and I'm having no regrets. As for him not calling or dating other girls, I'm OK with that too. At least at this point I know what I'm getting into, unlike some girls who get really played and think they are going to get into a relationship with some guy, so they sleep with him and then never hear from him again. That's not the case with me, and I won't be left wondering "what happened?". If we don't talk again I don't think I'll be all distraught. Yes, I might be a little sad that something more couldn't have come from it, but I had a lot of fun and am not requiring anything more out of it. We talked last night and he just asked that we tell each other if we hook up with other people. I'm OK with that, so I think I'm just going to enjoy the physical pleasure for a while Like I said, I have never slept around and this is the first "FWB" type situation I've been in so I guess I'll see if I like it or not. The idea of not having to worry about a bf during this extreemly busy time in my life has some appeal anyway. Yes, Berdie, he will be leaving in about 5 months for England, indeffinately. And as for you, Uniqueone, I know you probably have good intentions, but it is rather offinsive to suggest that the only women who are ok with casual sexual relationships have mental problems and a history of abuse. I assure you that I have neither. Why can't a lady just get her kicks like a man every once in a while? Again, thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Ariadne Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 Hey, Yes, Berdie, he will be leaving in about 5 months for England, indeffinately. Five months is a heck of a long time. You may still have some sort of relationship. Good luck with the calling, most likely he will, Ariadne
Timberlane Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 Why can't a lady just get her kicks like a man every once in a while? Of course. I have had problems with the FWB thing, but I don't expect everyone has problems with it. Glad you are having a good time with your eyes open.
uniqueone Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 And as for you, Uniqueone, I know you probably have good intentions, but it is rather offinsive to suggest that the only women who are ok with casual sexual relationships have mental problems and a history of abuse. I assure you that I have neither. Not all. Some just have really low self-esteem for other reasons. Just my opinion of course, but I'm basing it on several decades of experience. Why can't a lady just get her kicks like a man every once in a while? Because, simply put, most women aren't so emotionally detached from their body like that.
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