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Over the past month, I have occansionally run into this guy at the dog park. Everytime we run into each other, he gets a big smile on his face and we usually have a nice, but short conversation. All but the first time, one of us has been there with another person (we have only run into each other 4 times). But he seems super glad to see me and I dont notice him acting this way when other people talk to him.

 

If I am on the other side of the park, I see him looking at me. I have noticed him watching me go to my car 2 x. Just this morning, he was there with a woman (I am 99% certain that it was a friend) and he went out of his way when they were leaving to come over and say bye, confirm my name (he had it right), tell me his again, and say it was nice to see me again.

 

Does it appear that he is interested in me?

 

Would it be weird to ask him to go for coffee?

 

Thing that sucks is he works 8 days out in the field and is off 6 days, so if I dont make my move the next time I see him, it will be maybe a few weeks until I see him again.

 

Better yet, how do I give him the green light to ask me out?

 

Thanks

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If he's not with anyone, there's nothing weird about asking him for coffee at all. I'd be flattered, unless you then kind of leered at me and chortled "You look tasty."

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Thanks MR2.

 

I hear it a lot on these boards that a woman should not pursue a man. But that's rubbish, right? I mean if I ask him out first to get the ball rolling and then let him pursue, that would be ok, wouldn't it?

 

Guys, what do you think when a woman asks you out?

 

thanks

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