Author plainoldjared Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 Indian restaurant and she called you? The woman's got style! I like her! Have a great time Jared! enjoy the evening. and yea, she's a lucky gal! Thanks Kamille!! I was seriously impressed kinda nervous too hehe Indian restaurant...good choice. Oh very good choice, great food and music
Poboy Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Thats cos we are biased. well the food rocks , bias or no bias . just go easy on the spicy curry plainoldjared
Author plainoldjared Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 well the food rocks , bias or no bias . just go easy on the spicy curry plainoldjared thanks for the warning, I want as little interference as possible tonight
coco_milkshake Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 For sure. Tell the waiter when you order, that you dont want any chillies that too hot. You dont want to have any problems on your first date.
Timberlane Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 Jared is going on a blind date. Aha! Definitely wish you good luck with that. This would be the coup de grâce of dates. If you both have a good time and find each other's company enchanting, it will be quite excellent to hear.
Road Rage Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 Don`t have time to read 3 pages but..... Just give her a sharp slap on the azz and tell her what a fine b*tch she is. That should seal the deal. OK, only joking before all you feminazis go ballistic:laugh:
Lyssa Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 Don`t have time to read 3 pages but..... Just give her a sharp slap on the azz and tell her what a fine b*tch she is. That should seal the deal. OK, only joking before all you feminazis go ballistic:laugh: I did that to a guy and he stalked me for months. It was just a dare.... I don't take dares seriously anymore... unless they are really fun!
Cobra_X30 Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 I did that to a guy and he stalked me for months. It was just a dare.... I don't take dares seriously anymore... unless they are really fun! I dare you to flirt with Dateanalyzer next time he is on!
Lyssa Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 I dare you to flirt with Dateanalyzer next time he is on! Cobra!!! NNNOOOOO!!! He's scary....
Timberlane Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 Shhh. Jared is trying to say goodnight to his date. You guys are making too much noise.
Lyssa Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 Shhh. Jared is trying to say goodnight to his date. You guys are making too much noise. Oh is the date tonight? With the time difference and all, I'm confused. Ooohh.. can't wait to know how the date turn out!
bigheartkindsoul Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 Jared...."waves like a looney" well??? Itching to know how weekend was??????????? xxxxxx
Kamille Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 I'm hoping he miraculously avoided the classic syndrome of post-break-up first-date-blues. And that if he has the blues, that he isn't dealing with it all on his own!
tanbark813 Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 Maybe he had so much sex with her he was hospitalized with dehydration.
Author plainoldjared Posted November 6, 2007 Author Posted November 6, 2007 I had my date Friday night, I was on time and had some great tasting food with a very attractive very intelligent woman. We went to the Indian restaurant as planned and started off nice. I asked her the usual questions; what do you do, how do you know so and so, what kind of music do you like, etc and she asked me the same. Dinner was pretty straightforward, I didnt feel like she was attracted to me but we were definitely getting along well so it could have been nerves or something she had gone on a few dates but she hasnt gotten past the first date with anyone in months. I was having a really nice time and enjoying myself (which I havent in a long time) and wasnt ready to call it a night so I asked her if she wanted to go get some ice cream and drive around. I was pretty sure she'd say no but to my surprise she thought it was "so sweet" and said yes. We drove around and talked about our previous relationships for a few hours, haha. I walked her to the door and she bumped me in a cute way and then gave me a hug. I gave her a kiss on the cheek and said I had a really nice time to which she said "me too, I cant wait for tomorrow" OH THE NEXT NIGHT... Now this is the greatest part about being setup on a date, my buddy immediately informed me that my date told his gf that she liked me and was definitely open to a second date. So we went to the club danced all night and had lots of drinks. I was having a great time but unfortunately my date had too many drinks. My immediate reaction was dissapointment, I was bummed out that the lady I had met the night before, who appeared to be composed classy and all around impressive, was acting like a highschool kid, stumbling around and hanging on me. After dancing we all went and got some food and went back to my place so they could get their cars. It was obvious that my date was too drunk to drive and although she generously offered to stay at my place I was not in the mood to clean up puke. She called me Sunday and left a voicemail apologizing and explaining that she never gets like that. I couldnt help but roll my eyes and I havent called her back. I feel bad for not calling her but Im sick and not in the mood to talk (getting a cold or flu, I feel shi**y) so I sent her a text saying "hey, bummer you ended up getting sick, we were having such a good time" she wrote back with "I know, I really never drink like that, hope to see you soon" Am I being too harsh?
tomwiz Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 in a word...yes if she hasnt liked anyone enough to go on a second date, and she did with you...it was most likey a new ssensation for her. She was probably nervous going out for a second date and drown it in alcohol. We've all made mistakes like that, but its not like she kissed another guy or flirted with another guy in front of you, she just hung on you bc she felt comfortable. I'd take her at her word this once, if it happens again though, I'd be weary
bigheartkindsoul Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 Tricky one hunny. It's easy to over drink once you start drinking and if you are nervous or excited. However I can see how you would feel, most on frist, second, third, perhaps fourth dates tend to be on good behaviour to make great impressions on there potentials. Right my opinion, what did you think after Fridays date? for one Forget that your mates g/f found out she liked you, what did you think taking her blip out of the equasion? Enough to try for a proper second date again? So does this mean I still have a chance? teeheehee
Krytie TV Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 Am I being too harsh? Not at all. I would have had the same reaction as you... disappointment. Who wants to date a lush? Anytime someone I was dating I acted like that it embarrassed me. You should feel justified in handling this however you want, though it wouldn't hurt to give her another go in case it was a one-time thing.
tanbark813 Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 Am I being too harsh? IMO, yes, but everyone has their preferences. If a girl got falling-down-drunk every time and couldn't hold her liquor it would be a turn off for me, but a one time thing isn't a big deal. I'd rather date someone fun than date a prude. Personally, I get a little disappointed if a girl doesn't drink at all or only has one drink on a date. But that's getting on a tangent.
Timberlane Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 I don't know, to me this wouldn't be a big deal. If she regularly got drunk like that, then yes.
jcster Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 Are you sure you're not just looking for negatives? Maybe you can carefully inquire of your friends whether this is a regular occurance with her. If they reply with "oh yeah, she's a total lush," then it might be a problem.
sweetie7 Posted November 7, 2007 Posted November 7, 2007 I think you're being a bit too harsh and that she deserves a second chance. I know I'm a classy girl who's generally very composed and doesn't get too crazy. But every once in a while I go out and have a little too much fun, wake up the next day and say ohhhh noooo. I think it happens to the best people and as long as it's not all the time, it's no big deal. especially if she was nervous, she probably drank more than she should have. Just my opnion....it seemed like you liked her after the first date though, and this shouldn't be a dealbreaker.
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