plainoldjared Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Hello helllooooooooo!!! I am so frickin ecstatic! Ive got a date tonight This is fantastic, Im going dancing tomorrow night with my friends, kinda be the 5th wheel type thing. My buddies gf was going to bring her friend to be a buddy for me and so I wouldnt feel weird. Well I was going to call her tonight and ask her to lunch so we could meet (without all the noise) yea well guess what? She called me today (left a voicemail, Im at work) and asked if I'd like to have dinner tonight! Wow am I IMPRESSED. This is my first date after 3 weeks of having a nasty breakup after 3 years. I am sooo completely nervous and anxious. I havent called her back, would it be rude if I offerred to pick her up? Should we meet? She did call me so is it safe to assume she chose the location? Is it lame if I ask where we are going if she did in fact choose the location so that I know what ot wear?
bigheartkindsoul Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Hello helllooooooooo!!! I am so frickin ecstatic! Ive got a date tonight This is fantastic, Im going dancing tomorrow night with my friends, kinda be the 5th wheel type thing. My buddies gf was going to bring her friend to be a buddy for me and so I wouldnt feel weird. Well I was going to call her tonight and ask her to lunch so we could meet (without all the noise) yea well guess what? She called me today (left a voicemail, Im at work) and asked if I'd like to have dinner tonight! Wow am I IMPRESSED. This is my first date after 3 weeks of having a nasty breakup after 3 years. I am sooo completely nervous and anxious. I havent called her back, would it be rude if I offerred to pick her up? Should we meet? She did call me so is it safe to assume she chose the location? Is it lame if I ask where we are going if she did in fact choose the location so that I know what ot wear? gutted...lol But happy for you Picking her up would be a nice offer, if she feels she wants to great just don't pressure too much as it would for me depend on how comfortable and safe I felt doing that. Ask her has she decided as you are right you need to know what to wear, if not and she wants to surprise then just ask what attire you should go in so not over or under dressed. Have fun......sure she will be totally smitten
Lyssa Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 This is my first date after 3 weeks of having a nasty breakup after 3 years. I am sooo completely nervous and anxious. Jared has a dateeeee...!! Don't be nervous! Relax... I havent called her back, would it be rude if I offerred to pick her up? I think it would be very sweet of you if you offered to pick her up. I personally love it when a guy picks me up on a first date. Should we meet? Just call her up first, ask if it's okay to pick her up etc and if she said yes, then maybe you both can decide then where to go? Is it lame if I ask where we are going if she did in fact choose the location so that I know what ot wear? Now I'm just confused. She has decided where to meet up/go?
Author plainoldjared Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 Now I'm just confused. She has decided where to meet up/go? Hehe thanks what I meant was when I ask if she chose the place and she says yes (if she does say yes) then would it be lame if I ask what I should wear? I dont want her thinking Im gay haha! I dont want to under dress or over dress as BHKS put it...
Author plainoldjared Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 gutted...lol But happy for you Picking her up would be a nice offer, if she feels she wants to great just don't pressure too much as it would for me depend on how comfortable and safe I felt doing that. Ask her has she decided as you are right you need to know what to wear, if not and she wants to surprise then just ask what attire you should go in so not over or under dressed. Have fun......sure she will be totally smitten I will try my very hardest to be polite as I am kinda anxious and nervous and I just need to relax haha. I appreciate the boost of confidence, I cant wait to hear about your girls night out
Lyssa Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Hehe thanks what I meant was when I ask if she chose the place and she says yes (if she does say yes) then would it be lame if I ask what I should wear? I dont want her thinking Im gay haha! I dont want to under dress or over dress as BHKS put it... Wear smart-casual. You can't go wrong with that.
Author plainoldjared Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 Wear smart-casual. You can't go wrong with that. Smart casual, ok I think I can work that out
bigheartkindsoul Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 I will try my very hardest to be polite as I am kinda anxious and nervous and I just need to relax haha. I appreciate the boost of confidence, I cant wait to hear about your girls night out Wear smart-casual. You can't go wrong with that. Smart casual, ok I think I can work that out Nice shirt open at top with smart jeans and shoes - works for me. Aah with a face, body and personality like yours she probably be buring holes in your clothes to try and glimpse whats underneath. LOL You'll look great, you seem to have a fab fun personality and I am sure you both will have a blast. And we want updates too
Author plainoldjared Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 Oh Jared!! Don't forget to keep us updated!!! You know it Lyssa! WOO! I am sure you both will have a blast. And we want updates too Thanks BHKS I'll be here bright n early Monday to fill everyone in on my weekends events I really hope theyre good ones haha
tanbark813 Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Hehe thanks what I meant was when I ask if she chose the place and she says yes (if she does say yes) then would it be lame if I ask what I should wear? I dont want her thinking Im gay haha! I dont want to under dress or over dress as BHKS put it... Just ask something like, "So did you have a place in mind?" If so, she'll probably name the place and you won't need to ask where specifically, or what to wear. BUT, have a place in mind yourself just in case she doesn't. I agree with the other posters on the other points.
bigheartkindsoul Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 You know it Lyssa! WOO! Thanks BHKS I'll be here bright n early Monday to fill everyone in on my weekends events I really hope theyre good ones haha Monday - MONDAY - I gotta wait til then!!!
Star Gazer Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Just ask something like, "So did you have a place in mind?" If so, she'll probably name the place and you won't need to ask where specifically, or what to wear. BUT, have a place in mind yourself just in case she doesn't. Agreed. Good luck, Jared!
bigheartkindsoul Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Yeah just don't post more than once about your dates now, otherwise there might be trouble ahead.....LMAO
troutie jr Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Just ask something like, "So did you have a place in mind?" If so, she'll probably name the place and you won't need to ask where specifically, or what to wear. BUT, have a place in mind yourself just in case she doesn't. I agree with the other posters on the other points. Agreed. Also, make the suggestion to pick her up.
Author plainoldjared Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 Just ask something like, "So did you have a place in mind?" If so, she'll probably name the place and you won't need to ask where specifically, or what to wear. BUT, have a place in mind yourself just in case she doesn't. I agree with the other posters on the other points. Good point, I did have a place in mind just in case too, thanks bro!!
Author plainoldjared Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 Agreed. Good luck, Jared! Thanks Star WOOOOOO! Thoroughly excited Yeah just don't post more than once about your dates now, otherwise there might be trouble ahead.....LMAO hehe I follow ya
Star Gazer Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 hehe I follow ya Nah, no worries. You don't strike me as a whiner. I'm excited to see if you two hit it off!! YAY!
Author plainoldjared Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 Woohoo!!! We are confirmed for tonight She chose an Indian Restaurant, I've been once before. Intimate setting with dim lighting, very fun for a first date with belly dancers and sitting in close proximity to the other guests... HOW AWESOME IS THAT!?? This is goin to be fun... I need to clean my car as I will be picking her up. Ive never been on a blind date Oh lord I dont even know what she looks like that just hit me
coco_milkshake Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Good luck Jared and let us know how you get on!! Woop Woop!!
Author plainoldjared Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 Good luck Jared and let us know how you get on!! Woop Woop!! Thanks Coco I will be sure to give you the update
coco_milkshake Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 You dont know what she looks like?? Well one thing is for sure..she will probably think she has hit the lottery after getting a hottie like you for a date! I know thats how I would feel. Just be yourself and dont be nervous!! All the best.
Author plainoldjared Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 You dont know what she looks like?? Well one thing is for sure..she will probably think she has hit the lottery after getting a hottie like you for a date! I know thats how I would feel. Just be yourself and dont be nervous!! All the best. Aw well thanks Coco I hope it goes well my buddy has seen her before (its his gf reall good friend) and he says shes cute so thats exciting but it will still be a surprise eitherway
Kamille Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Indian restaurant and she called you? The woman's got style! I like her! Have a great time Jared! enjoy the evening. and yea, she's a lucky gal!
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