plainoldjared Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 LMSAO! You sound just like my BF!!! I'd look away and asked why the hell are you staring and he'd say the da*n same thing!! Thanks for making me miss him even more!! Im telling you women have an effect on us that is unbelievable. It takes a special kind of guy to know how to handle it. OH killed 2 birds with one stone on that one
shadowplay Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Yeah I'm very visual, but I"m more likely to notice the stunningly handsome guy with piercing blue eyes pouring over a book at the library than the shirtless beefcake strutting down the sidewalk. To be honest big muscles do very little for me; if anything they're a turnoff because they often go hand in hand with vanity and stupidity. I like lean, tall, toned bodies but big muscles are . I'm also much more visually aroused by faces than I am by bodies. I've never been able to understand the raw sex appeal of a random stranger's body. Now a body that is attached to somebody I like/love is another story...
plainoldjared Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Yeah I'm very visual, but I"m more likely to notice the stunningly handsome guy with piercing blue eyes pouring over a book at the library than the shirtless beefcake strutting down the sidewalk. To be honest big muscles do very little for me; if anything they're a turnoff because they often go hand in hand with vanity and stupidity. I like lean, tall, toned bodies but big muscles are . I'm also much more visually aroused by faces than I am by bodies. I've never been able to understand the raw sex appeal of a random stranger's body. A body that is attached to somebody I like/love is another story... Very very nicely written... I completely understand what youre saying and agree, I prefer the intellectual woman with a natural body over an ignorant hot woman any day. I need a woman with depth that can engauge me on all levels not just physically or sexually for that matter
afc2dj Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 Men at least openly admit they're visual. I think everyone knows women are too, but for some reason [stereotyping maybe?] seem to feel they have to always lie when asked "do looks matter"? I don't think its really even somthing that needs debating, after all, you never see women in a club/bar clamouring to meet the guys who are not good-looking! Nice to see some honesty in the matter from the ladies at last.
Lyssa Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 I don't think its really even somthing that needs debating, after all, you never see women in a club/bar clamouring to meet the guys who are not good-looking! Nice to see some honesty in the matter from the ladies at last. When I am at a club, I like checking out guys that are dressed smartly. They don't necessarily have to be good looking. Or when I go to a cafe and a guy is sitting alone with a book... minding his own business... that's hot.
Phateless Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 I've found that I love to check out women... I just enjoy the scenery. When I have a gf I most definitely do it, but in front of her I try my damndest not to do it at all... I find it disrespectful. My fwb is bi, so we can actually check out girls together, and that is awesome, lol I've noticed that lately I've had a lot of girls looking at me and I suppose that's got to be physical? Or a combo of body language? I dunno... How quickly will it turn for you ladies if you talk to him and he's boring or lame or something?
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