waitingwaitingonyou Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Well me and the ex broke up on Sunday. We were together 9 months. You can kinuv say that it was mutual but I could tell that she wanted it. I found out after the fact that she cheated on me and also she did lots and lots of cocaine and marijuana. As of right now I am feeling ok. I want her to call just so I can have the feeling that she still wants me. I know that we would never be together but it is always good for the ego. I just need some words of advice. What should I do if she even calls. Should i just answer normal or should I not anwser at all. I am moving on. I dont need her crap anymore. I was way too good to this girl. But the thought in the back of my mind is what to say if i get an email, textmessage or even a call. I doubt she will . I started NC right after the break up. Not even a peep from me or my end. She lives 6 hours away so the greiving process is alot easier. I never see her where I live. I live in a really small town (9,000 people). She lives in the city (about 700,000 people). Send me some positive feedback people! I am going to stay strong but i just need some help. MML
stillafool Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Yeah breaking up is hard, even if you know you and that person weren't meant to be. If she calls just be yourself and keep the conversation short if that's what you want. If you play games you will regret in later. Let her do the talking since she would be the one calling you. Try to get out of the house and do something with friends. A grieving process is normal but after 2 weeks get busy with other things. Good Luck!
wounded70 Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Im going on 5 days as well. Very hard as I was with my ex for 2.5 years. We had lots of issues but we always worked them out until I got sick and thats when things got rough. So I chalk mine up to inexperience on her part. She works 50 hours a week and goes to school full time so her life is vert sressful. I know one day the pain will be over for us. Stay Strong!
Author waitingwaitingonyou Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 Thanks. I am really not that shook up about it anymore. I know this girl is nothing worth my time. Anyone who is a coke addict, is not marriage material. She would have been a horrible mother. She doesnt respect herself. I am angry at myself for wasting my own time. I just hope that she is doing ok. I wish her the best and I tried to help her. But some people do not want help. mml
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