aurora_angel Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 I work with a MM that has a crush on me. i was told by my co-workers that he has a terrible home life and his W is always screwing him over and may be cheating on him. He is always depressed at work untill we talk. He asked me to send him some pics to his email so I did, than he gave me a new email so that his W would not find out. Than our messages turned into dirty emails and he was telling me that one day when he was home alone he would come and see me. I am not innocent either i was just as bad. But than the emails stopped and he called in for three days(he never misses a day) when i seen him at work he came up to me and told me that he wont be allowed around a computer for a long time, but he told me that it was not me. I got an email the next day saying that he could email me from work. that night i got and email from his W calling me every kind of name in the book and said that i split them up. He wrote me back 16 min later and said help, please do not send anything. she keeps writing me emails calling me a slut and other names, and sending me replies of our conversations and i am getting worried. Why would she do this if she dosent care about him?
justice Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Have you ever considered that he might be lying to you? And to the others as well. That's certainly what it sounds like from my view. My advice? End anything you have with this mm now before it gets worse. He's lying to you. It's called gaslighting and it's done to both spouses and other women.
greengoddess Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 lol She's his wife. What would ever make you believe a wife wouldn't care if her husband was participating in erotic emails with another woman?
littlekitty Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 There's a simple answer here. Don't get involved with married men!! I'd think yourself lucky this all happened before it went any further. She'll get bored of emailing you eventually provided you stop all contact with him now.
liddie Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Take it from me.....W's will mark their territory any way they no how. Whether it is legal or not (or on the verge). You are lucky in that she is letting you know really fast that she is in it to win it and that she will win. My advice to you.....back off!! She will get worse if she knows or even suspects that you are talking to her H. Obviously she is woman who has been cheated on before.
TogetherForever Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 You know, it could be that your mm is the one sending those nasty emails & making you think they're from his wife. Just an idea. TF
whichwayisup Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 i was told by my co-workers that he has a terrible home life and his W is always screwing him over and may be cheating on him Do they have firsthand knowledge of this, like witnessed it, or is this the crap he's told everyone at work? Why would she do this if she dosent care about him? Because he's lying to you about the state of his marriage. This is HER husband and she's going to fight for him. What did you think would happen, she'd just smile and hand him over to you? By involving yourself with a MM, especially with one you work with, is insane. Think of your reputation.
LexiB Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 I'd think yourself lucky this all happened before it went any further. Seriously! You're not in deep at all here yet - take a look at some of the other stories in this forum to see for yourself. So unless you're the type that gets off on drama, lies, and all the other crap that comes with being these stupid love triangles, WALK AWAY NOW. Otherwise, don't even bother trying to claim "innocence" later on like some of these other OW do -anything else that happens from here on out is completely your fault.
outofdarkness Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 I work with a MM that has a crush on me. i was told by my co-workers that he has a terrible home life and his W is always screwing him over and may be cheating on him. He is always depressed at work untill we talk. He asked me to send him some pics to his email so I did, than he gave me a new email so that his W would not find out. Than our messages turned into dirty emails and he was telling me that one day when he was home alone he would come and see me. I am not innocent either i was just as bad. But than the emails stopped and he called in for three days(he never misses a day) when i seen him at work he came up to me and told me that he wont be allowed around a computer for a long time, but he told me that it was not me. I got an email the next day saying that he could email me from work. that night i got and email from his W calling me every kind of name in the book and said that i split them up. He wrote me back 16 min later and said help, please do not send anything. she keeps writing me emails calling me a slut and other names, and sending me replies of our conversations and i am getting worried. Why would she do this if she dosent care about him? Because you've been fed a bunch of lies so that MM can get what he wants from you...ie. pictures, etc. You fell for it hook, line and sinker. You got YOURSELF into it. Tell the W you're sorry and block her e mail
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