spookie Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 First I want to say I LOVE being single. I'm getting to know so many different people from all kinds of walks of life as I continue the search for my one and only, and while I know none of them are right for me, the experiences I'm having are fun and fascinating and right now I would not trade them for anything. Last weekend, I went to a party with a couple of my friends where I got pretty smashed and flirted with someone I couldn't really remember later. He called me the next day and we set up a date for last night. He drove to my house from his town in the middle of East Texas on a giant truck splattered with dirt, and the minute he stepped out I knew he wasn't the sheltered college kid type I am used to. I dunno what gave it away the most: the dirt underneath his fingernails, the baggy jeans with the paint and dirt stains, or the tattoos. Despite everything he was stunningly handsome, though, in that white trash corn fed kinda way. Tall, built, tan, blonde. Pretty features. He came in, rolled a joint (already my kinda first date =)). I decided I was gonna get smashed, so I offered him a beer and gulped down three myself. We went outside to smoke and he told me a little about himself. About how his parnets are divorced and psycho and he had to go to a correcitonal school for the last two years of high school after getting arrested for dui at 15. After, we walked downtown, where he insisted on using his "friend's" credit card to pay for everything, including an expensive dinner and lots of drinks. So our night involved a felony. Interesting. (Allegedly he had the card with his friend's permission, but I'm not sure I buy that and it's shady regardless.) We stayed downtown until the bars closed, talking. I had a lot of fun. He was very fun to talk to, attentive, and considerate. We came back to my place, where we smoked some more and I fixed us some food, and then, because he was far too tired and drunk to drive anywhere, including the friend's house he'd made plans to crash at beforehand, I offered him the spare mattress in my room. I was impressed that even though we were inches apart, he didn't try anything funny. He spooned me nonsexually and kissed my hair, but that was it. In the morning, he asked if he'd see me again. I said yes, and then he asked to borrow my copy of The Catcher in the Rye.
Krytie TV Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 I'm sorry spookie. That made me shiver. I think that sounds (to me... and maybe only me) like one of the creepiest experiences I've heard of in a while. Maybe that's because pot isn't my idea of a great ice-breaker nor does the idea of using someone else's credit card sound impressive. But have fun. I hope it's all you need it to be
Author spookie Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 I'm sorry spookie. That made me shiver. I think that sounds (to me... and maybe only me) like one of the creepiest experiences I've heard of in a while. Maybe that's because pot isn't my idea of a great ice-breaker nor does the idea of using someone else's credit card sound impressive. But have fun. I hope it's all you need it to be It was indeed creepy. The creepiest part was when we stumbled into a beautiful historic hotel after the bars and he wanted to get a room on his friend's card. I am NOT looking for a relationship with this guy though and I don't intend on sleeping with him... so while he thoroughly creeps me out, the nice sides of his personality so far are keeping me interested in wanting to hang out again. At least he's not boring, that's for sure.
Timberlane Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 It was indeed creepy. The creepiest part was when we stumbled into a beautiful historic hotel after the bars and he wanted to get a room on his friend's card. I am NOT looking for a relationship with this guy though and I don't intend on sleeping with him... so while he thoroughly creeps me out, the nice sides of his personality so far are keeping me interested in wanting to hang out again. At least he's not boring, that's for sure. I don't see it being a good idea to hang out with this guy again on a date. Maybe in a group, but really, I would find out more about him. Be extra vigilant wit this guy. Seriously. And you should probably stop getting so wasted with guys you don't even know. You need to figure out if they are OK first. And I am from Texas, so I know them Texas boys.
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