Rowen Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Your ex comes onto messaging, talks to you for a sec, then just doesn't respond to anything? UGHH
wowIlose Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 block her and don't chat to her... basiclly anything she types you should read as "if you dont block me or respond your a tool". lol... just do it next time.
Author Rowen Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 I wqould read it that way but she was asking me about a serious health concern I have at the moment.
wowIlose Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Yea sounds like she really cares by not responding... you don't need her crap.
Scorpio13c Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Yea sounds like she really cares by not responding... you don't need her crap. WowIlose, You seem to give sound advice brother! Scorp
ninjaturtles Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 My sister was just complaining about the same thing. Exact same thing. If you use windows live messenger, You could either block her in a way whereby u cant see her at all wen she signs online(neither can she see you), or you can leave her, but change your settings in a way whereby you cant see her anytime she signs online,but she can see you and see can send you messages etc,You on the otherhand however would not able to see her unless she sends you a message. I did that in the past cos a)I didnt want my ex to know i blocked him , b) i wanted him to see me online and know that i wasnt caring to contact him c) i never wanted to know if he was online or not(made me uneasy..lol) Hope ur still following..... Anyway the steps are below 2 options- You either block her....(There's way you can block ppl, whereby you cant see them on your contact list at all...which is good, cos u dont get reminded of her when she signs online etc).Do you know how to do that? Steps 1-Just right click oh her name and click on 'block'...after she is blocked, (at this point you can still her online, but she is blocked) 2-right click again and click on delete...at this point, a box will appear on the top left, in this box, you;ld see 2 options...one sayin..'also block this contact', the other saying 'also remove from my hotmail contacts'. 3-Click on the 1st option(the 1st box)(also block this contact) cos clicking on the 2nd would mean you are totally deleting her from msn(which you dont want to do). 4-After you have done this, click on 'delete contact; (in this same boxat the bottom of the box). And you've blocked her, (her name would appear under 'non-instant messaging contacts'- . So, when next she signs online, you wont be able to see her....(Note- she is only blocked NOT deleted at this point.do not fear.lol)The only diff is that you cant see her on ur contact list. To unblock her, 5-just go to tools..then 6-scroll down and click on 'options'. 7-RIGHTClick on 'privacy' on the lefthandside, yould find her name on the 'block list' in a box on the right... 8-RIGHTclick on her name, and click on 'add to conacts'.., then click on ok at the bottom of the box)At this point she is back on your contact list,and u can see her..FINALLY rightclick on her name to unblock her(the usual way) 2ND OPTION....(which i have done in the past, is to leave her on your contacts list, but put her name on 'allowlist', so that when she signs online, you cant see her, BUT SHE CAN SEE YOU...(Well i did that in the past cos i didnt want the ex knowing i blocked him, plus i wanted him to see me online and notice that i did not care to contact him at all..(only that i couldnt see him online unless he sent me a instant message online. Thus, most of the times he was online i didnt even know he was there, unless he said something to me, which i never replied.) To do that, follow steps 1 to 7, then RIGHTclick on her name and click on 'move to allow list'. then click on ok at the bottom of the box. At this point, she can see you when you are online but you cant see her..she can send you messages etc..but you wont know she is online unless she hollers at u. Exhasutive but easy to follow.x
Author Rowen Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 Thanks for the tips:) It's just so annoying. I'm at the point where i'm about fed up with it. It's a pointless game and i'm not going to do anything to keep it going on. She wants to be able to say "look he sent me messages.. what a dork" blah blah. pathetic.
bigheartkindsoul Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Mine was blocked and deleted straight after the break up so do not and will not have that problem. Sounds like she is just messing and just wants to keep you there in reserve perhaps. Block her and talk to others that will talk back to you!!
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