Lostgurl Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Congrats Kamille! I'm happy for you, that you've finally found someone to make you do the spontaneous happy dance . Ahhh new love is so wonderful. Little Kitty: I just wanted to comment on your avie. It is truly a beautiful wedding picture of the two of you. P.S. Mr. Kitty/Spidy is hot .
marlena Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 sb12, A belated Congratulations! So happy for you. Nice things happen to nice people!! Many many years of marital bliss!!!
Star Gazer Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 BTW Kamille - I thought of you last night. My BF isn't a French Chef, but man can he cook!!! Great sex, great conversation, and great food...not sure if there's anything better than that!!
I Luv the Chariot OH Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Kamille: good for you! Now, if you still feel like this after your honeymoon period is over, then I will congratulate you
allina Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Kamille, a big congrats to you! I'm glad that I can also say that I'm very happy in love
Star Gazer Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Did I miss something? SG are you engaged? Oh heck no! I barely have myself a BF!
Author Kamille Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 Kamille: good for you! Now, if you still feel like this after your honeymoon period is over, then I will congratulate you I hear you but oh the honeymoon is soooo good! Spending whole days in bed talking and kissing, getting up only to cook delicious meals, talking talking talking and laughing laughing laughing. Kissing kissing kissing.
Star Gazer Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 I hear you but oh the honeymoon is soooo good! Spending whole days in bed talking and kissing, getting up only to cook delicious meals, talking talking talking and laughing laughing laughing. Kissing kissing kissing. Right SG? Unfortunately, neither of us have the luxury of spending whole days in bed, but the rest sounds about right!
sb129 Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 I hear you but oh the honeymoon is soooo good! Spending whole days in bed talking and kissing, getting up only to cook delicious meals, talking talking talking and laughing laughing laughing. Kissing kissing kissing. Right SG? Ariadne, on your way to dredging that thread about the bookstore guy, did you miss the threads about taking things slow, not being sure about this french cook, not wanting a relationship right now which all prove your argument is completely bunk? And even if I were starved for love, so what?? This man is absolutely fantastic and he's into me! The last month has been absolutely eye-opening for me. And maybe I will get hurt, but for now, I am just happy to be able to let my gards down with someone. Who cooks a mean tarte tatin to boot. Atta girl Kamille. Thats the attitude- if you don't care about getting hurt, odds are, you won't, because the real you is out to play, and he is obviously loving all of it! Keep it up! He sounds wonderful....a man who can cook and kiss well is worth his weight in gold. (WB can do both, another reason why i agreed to marry him.)
Timberlane Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 Shadenfruede ist for der pooper! I have not nor will I ever take pleasure in seeing couples have problems. I do gag when I see sickeningly sweet couples that dress alike, spoon feed each other at restaurants, and go "goochey goochey bunny boooooo!" in front of me. I've had a failed marriage (2 years ago) and before that two girlfriends that cheated on me. It all crushed the living schlit out of me, but I survived and somehow kept from being bitter. Lately I have had some just simply wonderful times dating, meeting women randomly, and all is good. So I'm not back in a nice long term relationship yet? No worries, man. It'll happen one day. I have always loved seeing nice couples together. It does make me sad as well, but more than anything I see myself in there doing the same things in the past. It's good to see that it still exists. So rock on you guys and Keep It Up.
Woggle Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 I'm happy for both you and sb129. It is good to see that some women can still appreciate a man that treats them well and it gives me hope that maybe I have found a woman that can appreicate it.
Lizzie60 Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 My new boyfriend is great. Thas is all I have to say. He makes me laugh, he's gorgeous, he's, hmmm, very talented, he's brilliant, he's a great cook and I just can't believe my luck. to top it all off, he takes super good care of me. Good for you! I honestly hope it lasts forever.. :bunny: I am happy for you but not one bit 'jealous'
compassion42 Posted November 3, 2007 Posted November 3, 2007 Hi Kamille-I'm very happy for you! I was wondering what was the turning point that allowed you to let your guard down and just enjoy the present moments with your guy-was it something he said or did that made you feel this way or was it just a decision you decided to make?
Author Kamille Posted November 3, 2007 Author Posted November 3, 2007 Hi Kamille-I'm very happy for you! I was wondering what was the turning point that allowed you to let your guard down and just enjoy the present moments with your guy-was it something he said or did that made you feel this way or was it just a decision you decided to make? Compassion42, right now it feels more like the result of things he has done and said, honestly. It is many little things and many little actions. What has changed is that yes, I have now decided to give in, trust him and believe him. And things have been even more splendid since I did. Hence my gushyness here. It's nice to find someone you can really let go and be yourself with
Author Kamille Posted November 4, 2007 Author Posted November 4, 2007 I've been thinking about your question a lot compassion42. BF certainly spent a lot of time trying to convince me, even flat out telling me, that he was worthy of my trust. But what is changing is that I am ready to accept it. To accept that yes I deserve to be loved like that, that yes it is possible, to enjoy that it feels good rather then immediately stop worrying that things could go wrong. We're still on the upswing. We spent the day together yesterday and it was just fantastic. He's loving that I'm finally in the moment with him.
compassion42 Posted November 4, 2007 Posted November 4, 2007 Kamille-Congratulations on letting your guards down and allowing yourself to be vulnerable. That is a huge step and it sure seems like it was a step worth taking. Your guy sounds amazing and it is wonderful that he is able to acknowledge and appreciate the changes you are making.
iwearpearls Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 I think sometimes we are all a little afraid to be happy and really let go. I should know since I did this for too long! It sounds like you have a wonderful man. Keep up the happy posts.
amaysngrace Posted November 5, 2007 Posted November 5, 2007 Congratulations Kamille. My BF is great too. It's nice to know what love is. Even Forrest Gump knows what love is and he is an idiot. But me, I had no idea until now. But once you find it then you know. And it's pretty friggin rockin.
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