American women - interesting read

[peace_pipe]

I found this website, this page in particular.

 

I must say that I agree with most of it. I DON'T want to agree with it, but I can't argue with some of the reasoning.

 

enjoy!!

 

http://www.americanwomensuck.com/

[LucreziaBorgia]

To me, that site is funny in ways it is probably not meant to be. For some reason I immediately thought of the Landover Baptist Church site. I guess the general nature of it strikes me as similar.

[peace_pipe]

To me, that site is funny in ways it is probably not meant to be. For some reason I immediately thought of the Landover Baptist Church site. I guess the general nature of it strikes me as similar.

 

Some of it is funny, but there is a lot of truth in their humor, unfortunately.

[birdie]

another bitter guy venting (I'm not American by the way). what a waste of time

[LucreziaBorgia]

Yeah, I guess I just don't relate with any of that except for to see it from the humorous perspective. My life right now is so far removed from that aspect of life, that I can look at it objectively.

[peace_pipe]

another bitter guy venting (I'm not American by the way). what a waste of time

 

You don't have to live in America to act like most american women do. Unfortunately, the behavior of american woman knows no geographical boundaries.

 

And yeah, I assume it would be unimportant to you - obviously because your needs and emotions aren't involved.

 

If they were, i am sure it would be damn interesting.

[Tony T]

We've had a flurry of women bashing threads on this site recently. There are reasons both sexes may have the inclination to bash the opposite sex but these types of debates are based on incomplete samples, faulty logic and a host of other problems.

 

People tend to subconsciously attract certain people to them. If men attract selfish, self-centered, psychotic, worthless and lazy women to them that's their problem. There are some great females...and great males in this world. But if we look for the bad, that's what we're going to get.

 

The fact that some men start women bashing threads tells me they are actually looking to attract that which they write about (and link to). If you think good thoughts and work on attracting great people, love, good will, prosperity, satisfying work, etc., that's what you'll get. If you just want to sit around all day and think about what bxtches women are or what jerks men are...guess what?...the world is very happy to accommodate you with the reality you suggest.

 

Hint: If you bring up reasons why women should be bashed, enough of them are delightfully happy to accommodate that your idea of them will be perpetuated. Stop the bashing and change the world.

 

Also, where women are concerned...try to understand the world of hormones. Certain times of the month it can be hell to be female and it's no wonder they don't quite behave the way men would like them to.

[peace_pipe]

We've had a flurry of women bashing threads on this site recently. There are reasons both sexes may have the inclination to bash the opposite sex but these types of debates are based on incomplete samples, faulty logic and a host of other problems.

 

People tend to subconsciously attract certain people to them. If men attract selfish, self-centered, psychotic, worthless and lazy women to them that's their problem. There are some great females...and great males in this world. But if we look for the bad, that's what we're going to get.

 

The fact that some men start women bashing threads tells me they are actually looking to attract that which they write about (and link to). If you think good thoughts and work on attracting great people, love, good will, prosperity, satisfying work, etc., that's what you'll get. If you just want to sit around all day and think about what bxtches women are or what jerks men are...guess what?...the world is very happy to accommodate you with the reality you suggest.

 

Hint: If you bring up reasons why women should be bashed, enough of them are delightfully happy to accommodate that your idea of them will be perpetuated. Stop the bashing and change the world.

 

Also, where women are concerned...try to understand the world of hormones. Certain times of the month it can be hell to be female and it's no wonder they don't quite behave the way men would like them to.

 

It's really not that complicated. Most American women do not have respect for men. It's obvious in how men are treated.

 

I've seen "good" men being treated like dirt by women time and time again. Sorry if that's is too realistic for you, but don't confuse it for pessimism.

 

The definition of stupidity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

[Cobra_X30]

It's really not that complicated. Most American women do not have respect for men. It's obvious in how men are treated.

 

I've seen "good" men being treated like dirt by women time and time again. Sorry if that's is too realistic for you, but don't confuse it for pessimism.

 

The definition of stupidity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

 

PP, the article applies to approximatly 1% of the female population in the US.

 

If you really believe that every woman in America is like this... why are you wasting your time with them? Its a big world out there!

[peace_pipe]

PP, the article applies to approximatly 1% of the female population in the US.

 

If you really believe that every woman in America is like this... why are you wasting your time with them? Its a big world out there!

 

1%??? You obviously haven't dated much.

 

I'm not wasting my time - I don't date 99% of women who would otherwise "date" me. It's all the same game, just a different woman.

[blind_otter]

It's really not that complicated. Most American women do not have respect for men. It's obvious in how men are treated.

 

I've seen "good" men being treated like dirt by women time and time again. Sorry if that's is too realistic for you, but don't confuse it for pessimism.

 

The definition of stupidity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

 

My mother isn't American and she's a straight up b*tch sometimes.

 

I'm just saying.

[amaysngrace]

Honestly PeacePipe, I am none of those things.

 

I remember you trying to bash me before on my thread about my BF getting me a diamond.

 

That was almost two months ago. And you're still harbouring all this bitterness. That's sixty days of your life in a darkened mindset.

 

Sixty days you will never be able to get back.

 

Why don't you let go of it already?

[peace_pipe]

Honestly PeacePipe, I am none of those things.

 

I remember you trying to bash me before on my thread about my BF getting me a diamond.

 

That was almost two months ago. And you're still harbouring all this bitterness. That's sixty days of your life in a darkened mindset.

 

Sixty days you will never be able to get back.

 

Why don't you let go of it already?

 

It's been much longer than 60 days!!

 

There's nothing for me to let go of.

 

Women treat men like dirt.

 

All women in their 20's care about is partying and selfish endeavors, then when they are older they have too much baggage to be a decent girlfriend.

 

When this changes, I'll be happy to "let go" of whatever it is you claim I am harbouring.

[curiousnycgirl]

I think these generalities apply to a subset both sexes - how large those subsets are, I don't know.

 

PP clearly you are not dating the right women - what are your criteria in selecting someone to date? Do you focus on superficial things like drop dead gorgeous looks? Specific socio economic backgrounds? etc.

 

I would suggest the traits described are more commonly found in specific groups of people. Exapnd your horizons - date more diverse types of women.

[laRubiaBonita]

PP, the article applies to approximatly 1% of the female population in the US.

 

If you really believe that every woman in America is like this... why are you wasting your time with them? Its a big world out there!

 

tru dat....... yo!

[peace_pipe]

PP clearly you are not dating the right women - what are your criteria in selecting someone to date?

 

No matter what my choices are, I have to start with women who are available. That effectively rules out 99% of women whom I would actually consider dating. This is based on the fact that EVERY girlfriend I have ever had - was seeing someone when we met.

 

I don't date women who go from one guy to the next anymore, thus effectively removing 99% of my options.

 

Do you focus on superficial things like drop dead gorgeous looks? Specific socio economic backgrounds? etc.

 

Don't need to be drop dead gorgeous - in fact, I like a more basic woman. Someone who is cute will do just fine if they have a friggin brain and can converse about things that really matter instead of Entertainment Tonight.

 

I would suggest the traits described are more commonly found in specific groups of people. Exapnd your horizons - date more diverse types of women.

 

A good suggestion, and I have tried this, hence my frustration. I have evalutated my intentions to the point where it makes me want to puke.

 

Of course I am not perfect, but the problem isn't me - trust me.

[stillafool]

It seems I am reading a lot of threads on LS lately bashing American Women. PP, this seems very simple to me. If you guys think American women are so horrible then leave them alone. Don't worry yourself about them just find other nationalities to date and marry. There are tons of foreigners in America for you to date. I hate liver, but I don't go around complaining about it. I eat other foods instead. You guys are causing yourself stress over nothing. Or........could it be you really desire American women but are striking out with them. Either way, leave them alone and move on to what you desire.

[peace_pipe]

It seems I am reading a lot of threads on LS lately bashing American Women. PP, this seems very simple to me. If you guys think American women are so horrible then leave them alone. Don't worry yourself about them just find other nationalities to date and marry. There are tons of foreigners in America for you to date. I hate liver, but I don't go around complaining about it. I eat other foods instead. You guys are causing yourself stress over nothing. Or........could it be you really desire American women but are striking out with them. Either way, leave them alone and move on to what you desire.

 

I do leave them alone, but it took 15 years of dating to come to this conclusion.

 

I just wanted to point it out to the women here - with the idea that you MIGHT care why many men feel this way and MIGHT want to change it.

[luvmy2ns]

I think these generalities apply to a subset both sexes - how large those subsets are, I don't know.

 

PP clearly you are not dating the right women - what are your criteria in selecting someone to date? Do you focus on superficial things like drop dead gorgeous looks? Specific socio economic backgrounds? etc.

 

I would suggest the traits described are more commonly found in specific groups of people. Exapnd your horizons - date more diverse types of women.

 

EXACTLY what I was thinking. So many guys focus ONLY on the package. Granted, I like a good looking man who takes care of himself, but that's not my only criteria. If I find a man with a good sense of humor who is kind, his looks change for the better in my mind regardless what my first impression was as far as looks are concerned.

 

If you want "arm candy," you're gonna get a woman who acts like that's all she has to be, and that you should feel lucky to be with her. There are many kind, generous, nurturing, intelligent, and pretty women out there who could really take you for a sexy, happy, contented ride through life if you use different criteria in your search.

[peace_pipe]

EXACTLY what I was thinking. So many guys focus ONLY on the package. Granted, I like a good looking man who takes care of himself, but that's not my only criteria. If I find a man with a good sense of humor who is kind, his looks change for the better in my mind regardless what my first impression was as far as looks are concerned.

 

If you want "arm candy," you're gonna get a woman who acts like that's all she has to be, and that you should feel lucky to be with her. There are many kind, generous, nurturing, intelligent, and pretty women out there who could really take you for a sexy, happy, contented ride through life if you use different criteria in your search.

 

Read my posts, please.

[blind_otter]

 

Of course I am not perfect, but the problem isn't me - trust me.

 

I've learned that when a pattern exists in your life you have to sit down and evaluate what you contribute to the situation to keep it going.

[peace_pipe]

I've learned that when a pattern exists in your life you have to sit down and evaluate what you contribute to the situation to keep it going.

 

A typical response, although it is a valid one.

 

I've done that a million times.

 

I like myself, everyone of my friends think I am a good person.

 

There's just too many emotionally unstable women out there.

 

Please explain to me how my behavior contributes to that.

[blind_otter]

A typical response, although it is a valid one.

 

I've done that a million times.

 

I like myself, everyone of my friends think I am a good person.

 

There's just too many emotionally unstable women out there.

 

Please explain to me how my behavior contributes to that.

 

Maybe it's the type of woman you are attracted to - the set of characteristics that comprise the personality. What are the commonalities amongst those you have dated -- have you met them in similar settings?

 

I hate to replay the old cliche - but your relationship with your opposite sex parent also reflects the type of interactions you have with the opposite sex.

 

It seems like you generally have a negative view of women. That may be reflected in the types you choose to date.

[peace_pipe]

Maybe it's the type of woman you are attracted to - the set of characteristics that comprise the personality. What are the commonalities amongst those you have dated -- have you met them in similar settings?

 

I've met them in bars, internet, at work social gatherings. It's all the SAME.

 

I hate to replay the old cliche - but your relationship with your opposite sex parent also reflects the type of interactions you have with the opposite sex.

 

 

I have a great relationship with my Mother, she is almost like my best friend.

 

It seems like you generally have a negative view of women. That may be reflected in the types you choose to date.

 

After dating probably a hundred women, I would like to think that there were different "types" among them. Once again, they are fundamentally all the same.

[jcster]

but the problem isn't me - trust me.

 

Riiigggghhhht. Nope...not your fault....99% of the women out there are evil, psychotic b*tches...but no part of the problem resides with you.....

 

Denial ain't just a river in Egypt, son.