hollaxatholly Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 I don't know how to ask this exactly...but I'm just wondering about NC...Whats the longest you and MM have been NC? What about NC he started? I'm just wondering because my MM has been NC...it's been about a month now that he's kept it up. We've never been this long before. We had a few days before but then I told his W about us, and last time we talked he was upset that i did that. he also said that he loved me and would marry me if he could but that he was in a mess financially right now and it just wasn't possible right now. then he said he'd call me when he got A chance( which i assumed would be a couple of days max) and it's been about a month now... I am trying to give up hope that he'll call but I just can't, not yet. I'm pretty sure he'll call again one day...soon I hope! lol He checked the voicemail on our "secret" phone last week...but no call. I don't know if he's doing this for me or if he really is done with us. I just would like to talk to him..get some answers from him. I know...you all are going to say to give it up. I would like to know whats the longest you and MM have been NC? I mean it was a d-day...and I'm pretty sure his W is watching him like crazy...I've seen him twice since then..he didn't see me...and she was in the car with him. I'm not sure if they are trying to work it out, exactly but I'm almost positive he wouldn't have the nerve to leave her. He's really scared of her and what she might do to him. He always told me she had to leave him, and she won't leave him because she knows exactly where he's headed...and she's so jealous she wants to make sure theres NOTHING between us, for sure, before she'll go. It's all a mess....I know I should move on, I don't need to hear it. I just want to know...how long before I should give up all hope of him calling? Has anyones MM ended it and then came back? how long did it take?? thanks
whichwayisup Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 We had a few days before but then I told his W about us, and last time we talked he was upset that i did that. Don't call him and don't return his call if he calls you. NC is NC. Besides, hate to say it, but seeing as you told his wife about you two and he was upset, I doubt he'll contact you because he's afraid you'll tell his wife again. Use this time for you...Have fun with your friends, work on getting over him, detaching and not having him in your daily life. Good luck and stay strong.
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