waitingwaitingonyou Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 Well here is my stupid story. I met this girl in Feb. Everything was great until this summer. We were together. She has had problems from before and I found them out too late. I found out she had an aborton, that she sleeps around with other guys and that she does cocain. We broke up on Sunday and I have not contacted her since. It is not Wed. So three days with NC. I want to contact her and try to refule the fire. I found out that she had been seeing another guy behind my back last week and it just didnt work out. I dont want to be with her but I really want her to call just to see how she is. I feel sorry for her. She does not have a great life. I have never done drugs and have a great job now she is just playing the field and sleeping with everyone. I am just wondering. Should I call or should I let it go and move on? I want to call but I doubt she will ever call. I have never done anything to hurt her. She is not a person to admit her faults. She has major problems. So again here is my questions; Should I call her or should i just let it go? Why do i like this person I know that she is the devil? There probabably is no hope in getting back together but I wonder if she is thinking about me. Thanks
coco_milkshake Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 Let it go. Obviously its going to take a while cos you did have some feelings for her but it seems she showed no consideration towards you. She is not relationship material and she needs to get herself sorted out. I suggest you move on. I doubt she thinks about you if she can see another guy behind your back. If someone did that to me, I wouldnt give them a second thought.
Author waitingwaitingonyou Posted October 31, 2007 Author Posted October 31, 2007 yeah but a part of me wants it to work. But i know that she will never be happy. She has alot of problems. I want to call so bad. It is going though my head all the time. What should I do. This is crazy. I wonder if she will ever call or if she even worries about how i am doing. She probably wont. She is too busy banging others and doing drugs... it sucks
coco_milkshake Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 yeah but a part of me wants it to work. But i know that she will never be happy. She has alot of problems. I want to call so bad. It is going though my head all the time. What should I do. This is crazy. I wonder if she will ever call or if she even worries about how i am doing. She probably wont. She is too busy banging others and doing drugs... it sucks Why are you setting yourself up for a fall if you know what she is like? You need to be strong. Whenever you feel the need to call her, distract yourself. I know its hard but you everytime you think about her, focus on the negatives..that will restrain you from contacting her. Y You dont need her problems in your life and the fact that she is sleeping with other men doesnt make her relationship material. You will always be paranoid about her seeing other men when she is with you. Do you need that?? Ask yourself that then decide what you want.
Author waitingwaitingonyou Posted October 31, 2007 Author Posted October 31, 2007 your right. I know i am being stupid. We are not really that young. We are both 28 years old. the guy she had at the house last week was 18 years old. You tell me! It is just rather wierd and I really dont want to deal with her right now. But can I ask you something? What should I do if she ever calls....????????????? should i answer or should I just let it go? Or should I just not answer?
coco_milkshake Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 your right. I know i am being stupid. We are not really that young. We are both 28 years old. the guy she had at the house last week was 18 years old. You tell me! It is just rather wierd and I really dont want to deal with her right now. But can I ask you something? What should I do if she ever calls....????????????? should i answer or should I just let it go? Or should I just not answer? She clearly has some unsolved issues which she needs to address. You have answered your own question there. Dont answer your phone cos chances are, you will end up giving in to her and history will repeat itself and you will end up hurt again. Be strong!!! She will get the message.
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