Lizzie60 Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 He emailed me ...wanting to see me this coming Saturday. I replied that I will not see him again for sex (white lie about the reason LOL)... then he said he still wants to see me even if there is no sex... he likes to talk to me... He once called me his 'sex psychologist' LOL... This is the 3rd MM this month that I 'flushed'... 'downsizing' continues I want to make more 'time' for my hot young lover...
lost4ever Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 Lizzie, your freaking me out, this hot young one sure is changing you!!!
KATANYA Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 You know Lizzie, I don't know what you do for a living but if you ever write a book about how to deal with MM, how to be the OW without losing yourself, how to end the A, etc....it would be a best seller! Trust me, I'm HUGE on reading and have read just about every book out there on relationships, MM/OW themes, etc........you would be a hit.
whichwayisup Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 I don't like how you two got together, but it's obvious that there's something special there, otherwise you wouldn't be getting rid of the other MM in your life... Hmm, could this be love??? I hope you find some real happiness and allow this to grow into an exclusive one on one relationship.
jerbear Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 He emailed me ...wanting to see me this coming Saturday. I replied that I will not see him again for sex (white lie about the reason LOL)... then he said he still wants to see me even if there is no sex... he likes to talk to me... He once called me his 'sex psychologist' LOL... This is the 3rd MM this month that I 'flushed'... 'downsizing' continues I want to make more 'time' for my hot young lover... Sounds like you want him as an "unflushable," Brit com humor
Lyssa Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 Hot young lover - good for you, Lizzie!! But... you haven't given up on the rest, have you? If you had... mann this young lover sure has an impact on you!
Curmudgeon Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 Aren't you special?!?!? Of course, if you really had "it" you wouldn't need to flaunt "it"!
Curmudgeon Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 You know Lizzie, I don't know what you do for a living... Ho! Ho! Ho! That's what!
whichwayisup Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 how to be the OW without losing yourself, how to end the A, etc....it would be a best seller! K, she doesn't get emotionally attached to her MM. She isn't looking for a long lasting love and emotional relationship, it's all about fun and sex, feeling good. That's the difference between Lizzie and most of the OW here. She doesn't ask anything of the MM, no expectations at all. Not that hard to figure out. Plus, when it's over, she just ends it and it's a done deal.
OpenBook Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 He emailed me ...wanting to see me this coming Saturday. I replied that I will not see him again for sex (white lie about the reason LOL)... then he said he still wants to see me even if there is no sex... he likes to talk to me... He once called me his 'sex psychologist' LOL... This is the 3rd MM this month that I 'flushed'... 'downsizing' continues I want to make more 'time' for my hot young lover... Lizzie I'm not sure what the purpose of this thread is. What kind of feedback are you looking for?
KATANYA Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 K, she doesn't get emotionally attached to her MM. She isn't looking for a long lasting love and emotional relationship, it's all about fun and sex, feeling good. That's the difference between Lizzie and most of the OW here. She doesn't ask anything of the MM, no expectations at all. Not that hard to figure out. Plus, when it's over, she just ends it and it's a done deal. I have read enough of Lizzie's posts to understand that she can separate emotions from physcial intimacy. I also have read enough responses to know how many view that but, in all fairness to the OW, I bet MANY wish (especially after D-Day or further to the turmoil of NC) that they were able to do the same. Not saying its right for everyone but Lizzie always says she 'cares' deeply about some of these MM and they about her....there is just a line, a boundary and a clear, realistic view about where the R is going - therefore the turmoil of the 'ending' is not there! Of course many OW can't do this because we become emotionally involved and emeashed in our MM's life...we believe the words he says and the promises he makes and we 'fall in love' with the MM. I understand the difference but I still believe if there were a book out there that could tell the OW how "not" to end up with a broken heart - EVERYONE would read it. (Yes, I know, the next BS response will be "if you don't want a broken heart don't get involved with a MM") Don't want to say we should all be like Lizzie or could be but, gee, wouldn't it make coping a heck of a lot easier!
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 1, 2007 Author Posted November 1, 2007 I have read enough of Lizzie's posts to understand that she can separate emotions from physcial intimacy. I also have read enough responses to know how many view that but, in all fairness to the OW, I bet MANY wish (especially after D-Day or further to the turmoil of NC) that they were able to do the same. Not saying its right for everyone but Lizzie always says she 'cares' deeply about some of these MM and they about her....there is just a line, a boundary and a clear, realistic view about where the R is going - therefore the turmoil of the 'ending' is not there! Of course many OW can't do this because we become emotionally involved and emeashed in our MM's life...we believe the words he says and the promises he makes and we 'fall in love' with the MM. I understand the difference but I still believe if there were a book out there that could tell the OW how "not" to end up with a broken heart - EVERYONE would read it. (Yes, I know, the next BS response will be "if you don't want a broken heart don't get involved with a MM") Don't want to say we should all be like Lizzie or could be but, gee, wouldn't it make coping a heck of a lot easier! You pretty much 'resumed' it.. (bold) You are right on... I do not fall in love.. or when I see myself getting 'attached' I have a good talk in front of the mirror... LOL I have to run now, I have a 'date' with my daughter , dinner-movie... I'll be back later.
MrsHellnoFire Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 This is astonishing to me. I remember just several short months ago, you were a brand new member. Now you've racked up more posts than people that have been here for years. 3,415? Do you live on here? You sound like you're getting too attached to your young stud since you see it fitting to get rid of all the rest. Shows an emotional bond brewing. GL trying to remain an unemotional roboho.
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 This is astonishing to me. I remember just a few short months ago, you were a brand new member. Now you've racked up more posts than people that have been here for years. 3,415? Do you live on here? You sound like you're getting too attached to your young stud since you see it fitting to get rid of all the rest. Shows an emotional bond brewing. GL trying to remain an unemotional roboho. Yes I found this board last April. and WWIU has the record I think... I'm second if I'm not mistaken... I don't quite live on here but I can post all day from work which gives me a lot of hours... I don't have as much time when I'm home... but I post in between my 'sessions' ha-hem... I live alone ... no kids, no bf, no H... Not quite getting rid of all the rest... I still have lots... but I have to admit I like him a lot... he's my 'new' favourite.
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 Hot young lover - good for you, Lizzie!! But... you haven't given up on the rest, have you? If you had... mann this young lover sure has an impact on you! No, no... I haven't given up on the rest... but I have to admit that he has an impact on me... in a verrrrry hot 'steamy' way... it's amazing...
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 You know Lizzie, I don't know what you do for a living but if you ever write a book about how to deal with MM, how to be the OW without losing yourself, how to end the A, etc....it would be a best seller! Trust me, I'm HUGE on reading and have read just about every book out there on relationships, MM/OW themes, etc........you would be a hit. If I had the talent, I would... I don't know what the title would be LOL... It's funny that you mention that... even some of my MMs that know quite a bit about my lifestyle, told me I should write a book on my life... makes me smile.. maybe one day, before I lose too much memory I should start to write what I can remember.. LOL I've been with soooo many men in the last 5 years that sometimes someone I meet on the street or on the bus will make me think of someone I had sex with and that I had totally forgotten (even his name).... when I really think about it, seriously, I just can't believe it myself... it's crazy... but as weird as it sound.. I have absolutely no regret...
Lyssa Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 No, no... I haven't given up on the rest... but I have to admit that he has an impact on me... in a verrrrry hot 'steamy' way... it's amazing... I thought he would have that kinda impact on you!! Is that your pic?
Meaplus3 Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 If I had the talent, I would... I don't know what the title would be LOL... It's funny that you mention that... even some of my MMs that know quite a bit about my lifestyle, told me I should write a book on my life... makes me smile.. maybe one day, before I lose too much memory I should start to write what I can remember.. LOL I've been with soooo many men in the last 5 years that sometimes someone I meet on the street or on the bus will make me think of someone I had sex with and that I had totally forgotten (even his name).... when I really think about it, seriously, I just can't believe it myself... it's crazy... but as weird as it sound.. I have absolutely no regret... Got it! A title for you book that is. "Many Married Men Memories"? Like all the M's? LOL:lmao: Lizzie, I do respect your choice in life because it's your's! I think your great! AP:)
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 I thought he would have that kinda impact on you!! Is that your pic? Yes... and is it your in your avie?
Meaplus3 Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Yes... and is it your in your avie? What do you think? AP
Lyssa Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 Yes... and is it your in your avie? That's me, yes. For your age, you are one hot mama!!
Citizen Erased Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 That's me, yes. For your age, you are one hot mama!! lyssa excuse me for one second but *drools* WOW
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 That's me, yes. For your age, you are one hot mama!! Thanks Lyssa... You look like a porcelain doll... you are stunning!!!!! WOW!
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 2, 2007 Author Posted November 2, 2007 What do you think? AP Is that you? I'm not sure.. I'm not good at guessing..
Lyssa Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 lyssa excuse me for one second but *drools* WOW Do you need tissue, love? You're too kind, DC!!
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