tmarie55 Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 I was dating a guy who recently got out of a 4 year relationship. He said he really liked me however he wanted to take things slow. We hung out about once a week for about two and a half months and then it seemed like he just freaked. I realized that I was the one after the first couple dates that would usually initiate plans to hang out. Was I rushing things by trying to get together every weekend? I thought taking it slow meant we're not going to meet each others family, say we're girlfriend and boyfriend etc. I realize I should have defined this with him...but now I can't so was just wondering what others, especially guys, opinions is on this so I don't make the same mistake again. Cheers!
Krytie TV Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 Initiating plans is not rushing. His freaknig out seems to be his own issue, based on your post.
Ariadne Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 Hi, There's no such thing as rushing. Some person might just not want a relationship and calls that rushing. Yes, you can rush into sex or something like that, but "I prefer we see each other less" is not preventing rushing. That's just bailing out, Ariadne
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